"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Naughty Ninja

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Why ask question(s) on SS if you don't like the answers or have no plans to put any of the common sense advice you've been given into action?

IE: Telling dudes to work out, groom better etc...Posted pic of person seeking advice 6-12 months later = no changes made.

Is this site just a venting/ mental masturbation band aid for posters who prefer to pay lip service and or "listen" while common sense advice goes in one ear and out the other? :crazy: :yes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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VladPatton

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It is the poster's stupidity if he chooses to ignore 20, 30 guys of varying age groups telling him the same thing. From ages 18 to 55, you think all these points of views are THAT wrong and off key? No, they generally veer in the same direction. But...AFC-hood is a strong force!

When I had my first question/problem last summer, and some replies were dead-on-balls to what was happening and what I was doing and thinking, I was like, ok, this is no joke, these mudderphukkers have been around the block! I screwed up, now I have to listen and do and improve.

People are just too goddamn coddled lately and can't own a bad decision.
 

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VladPatton said:
It is the poster's stupidity if he chooses to ignore 20, 30 guys of varying age groups telling him the same thing. From ages 18 to 55, you think all these points of views are THAT wrong and off key? No, they generally veer in the same direction. But...AFC-hood is a strong force!

When I had my first question/problem last summer, and some replies were dead-on-balls to what was happening and what I was doing and thinking, I was like, ok, this is no joke, these mudderphukkers have been around the block! I screwed up, now I have to listen and do and improve.

People are just too goddamn coddled lately and can't own a bad decision.
I worry if all the replys are the same. That means nobody is thinking for themselves.
 

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Yeah I agree. Very few here actually make the effort to improve their lives. If only people had more journals :/ now everyone just wants to hear what they want to hear. If the advice is really good they'll dismiss it cause its not what they wanted to hear but it was what they needed to hear.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can you guys sympathize and reassure the cheated poster that his GF won't do it again? Fvck.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
I worry if all the replys are the same. That means nobody is thinking for themselves.
30 people saying "you need to hit the GYM" and boy doesn't listen because he's lazy so he's fat which makes him lazy which makes him fat .......
(I know the pics/thread that NN is talking about)



The very definition of insanity - To do the same thing over and over and expect different results. (quoted again and again on this forum, I know)

"Why cant I just FVCK!?"

You need to hit the gym, sort that wardrobe and get a decent haircut and maybe try contact lenses.


12months later "i still aint gettin none"

Pictures show that you have ignored ALL 3 points that you were told to work on. AND the optional one (contacts).

Judge Filth calls a ruling - you dont really want to get laid, you'd rather bvtch and moan on and online forum and fap to a mantroll on realtime chatzy!
Questiontime has been suspended for you on this board until you follow the advice already handed to you and put up pics to prove it.

Case closed.
 

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Purefilth said:
30 people saying "you need to hit the GYM" and boy doesn't listen because he's lazy so he's fat which makes him lazy which makes him fat .......
(I know the pics/thread that NN is talking about)



The very definition of insanity - To do the same thing over and over and expect different results. (quoted again and again on this forum, I know)

"Why cant I just FVCK!?"

You need to hit the gym, sort that wardrobe and get a decent haircut and maybe try contact lenses.


12months later "i still aint gettin none"

Pictures show that you have ignored ALL 3 points that you were told to work on. AND the optional one (contacts).

Judge Filth calls a ruling - you dont really want to get laid, you'd rather bvtch and moan on and online forum and fap to a mantroll on realtime chatzy!
Questiontime has been suspended for you on this board until you follow the advice already handed to you and put up pics to prove it.

Case closed.

LOLOLOLOL PACKERS HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAH :up: :up: :up: :up: :up: :up: :up: :up: :up: :up:

Holy sh1t that was great.
 

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i think we should make it mandatory to have a picture of the members before they ask any questions.... i mean sometimes i see the pics of some guys and i'm like "no wonder they don't get laid"
 
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