I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I have no problem admitting that the way most black people conduct themselves almost proves that to be true.wayword said:Uh oh, here we go again with guys' e-maginary huge e-pen0rs...
But isn't it really size, not color?
Or skills, not size?
Or alphaness, not skills?
Or attraction, not alphaness?
Or "love," not sex?
Or ego-validation, not "love?"
Or...yadda yaddda...
Same with tiny Black monkey brains, right?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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