"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why asian guys can't get white girls (vid)

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can someone tell me the song artist and title when in the end the girl stops and sees the black guy with the peanut butter. Whats that song that comes on when it focuses in on her?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
What you guys dont see is that in the end, everything balances out when the girl is attracted to the black guy.
The way i see it, things don't actually balance out. I see it more like: black > white > asians > indian. Anyhow, it still all boils down to confidence!:)
 

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Originally posted by MightyMate
Asian woman want white man coz they have ****s buigger than asians. Same reason white woman dont want asian man.
Yeah I thought they were going to say that. They decided to talk about big asses and body hair:p

That video could have so many thesis written from them.

LOL, but it is hardcore the background theme of the move...

"smalllllllll confidence"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by flyinshark
The way i see it, things don't actually balance out. I see it more like: black > white > asians > indian. Anyhow, it still all boils down to confidence!:)

Indians do better than asians thing is they also have some fine ass women who DON'T date outside there own.

So there's no need to date outside there own.Unless they choose to.

I've seen more indians with other races of women then asians to be honest.
 

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man, thats a cool video.

The chick during the ending is not bad either...:D
 

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Bahahaha. Funny ass video, with some good stuff in it as well. :)
 

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I love the part where the Indian is talking to the Asian and he's all like "and the problem is you Asians have very very small............. .........confidence!!" lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Corny but with a point.
 

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Well, I hate stereotypes, but these stereotypes are confirmed every time some Asian AFC comes on the message board and asks "How do I get a white girl, I'm Asian?"

I swear, these guys have the nerve to call themselves DJ's but still put white girls on pedastals.
 

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hey DJ in da macking

I see far more masturbation obsessed/anime punks make threads about 'how to game asian chicks'

What you think it is about an asian guy, that makes him want a white girl?
 

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I think a lot of us young guys get turned on by girls we see as exotic and mysterious.

I see it more dating interracially than marriage interracially though.
 

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Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
hey DJ in da macking

I see far more masturbation obsessed/anime punks make threads about 'how to game asian chicks'

What you think it is about an asian guy, that makes him want a white girl?
To be honest a see a lot of that crap on here too, I spoke about the anime punks on one of their threads as well. But don't get me wrong, it isn't just Asian guys that pedastalize white girls, it seems like everyone (with the exception of white guys themselves) have an exaggerated view of white girls induced by the media.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Like I said, it's predominantly about assimilating, that goes for AMs going for WFs and AFs going for WMs. It's about the majority being considered desireable and when you've got that "Whitey" stamp of approval, whether it's a WM with his trophy AF or AM with his trophy WF, you "feel" less like a 2nd class citizen in the USA.
 

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Originally posted by AsianPlayboy
Like I said, it's predominantly about assimilating, that goes for AMs going for WFs and AFs going for WMs. It's about the majority being considered desireable and when you've got that "Whitey" stamp of approval, whether it's a WM with his trophy AF or AM with his trophy WF, you "feel" less like a 2nd class citizen in the USA.
it could be that, but I think when an AM pairs with a WF there's different feeling to it compared to a WM dating an AF. WM/AF pairings are seen as one of convenience where the great white dude gets his miss saigon sex maid while the WF/AM pairings tend to be more of AM wants to look for someone more compatible with his westernized views an perhaps the WF wanting to date someone different and fall in love with someone who is different.
 

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
First off those guys are treating that situation as comedy.But really look at the way they dress,look how skinny they are,look at how corny they behave.

It's supposed to be funny but really that is the problem.They're just too ****ing nerdy.

yep

the main guy is good looking but he lacks masculinity

Stan Mcquay is an Asian bodybuilder that gets tons of chicks
 

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Yep, asian girls trade up to white guys, white girls trade up to black guys...thats how it seems anyway..

I see lots of asian women with white guys and quite a few with black guys, cant think of the last time I saw a white guy black girl combo and rarely a white girl asian guy combo.


I dated a couple of asian chicks (im white) and they were expecting me to have a huge ****, which I dont, Im just an average dude, one chick was a bit upset! lol..both were here studying and I think i was there first whitey.

I go down the gym a few times a week in this multi cultural city and theres no doubt at all that generaly speaking **** size is a race thing, azn dudes, then white dudes and east indian and arabs about the same and then black dudes, I know that makes me look like some kind of a **** gazer, (which Im not) but this is something ive noticed after 15 years and travelling asia and going to saunas where its normal to all be naked. Just my 2 cents!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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