"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why arranged marriage is better...

princess_124

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1. Men don't have to worry about rejection
2. Statistically, they last longer
3. It keeps marriage less boring. One of the reasons why westerners get divorced so quick is because they get bored...well, if they get arranged marriage, they will take time to get to know each other, and of course, love blossoms every time!

I know that most people are thinking that this is an Indian/Muslim/Japanese/African tradition, but it's not true...Love marriage is a very new way of getting married, and obviously, they end up failing! Europe and other western countries have also been practicing for centuries! What do u guys think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how about no marriage?

all the great books when talking about marriage are not talking about the union of animal man and woman but spiritual man/woman. reason/emotions.

the world might be such a better place if this fundamental tenet was understood.
 

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sylvester the cat said:
how about no marriage?

all the great books when talking about marriage are not talking about the union of animal man and woman but spiritual man/woman. mind/body.

the world might be such a better place if this fundamental tenet was understood.
Uhh....no anti-marriage trolls allowed please. Why don't you like marriage? Are you planning to grow old and die alone?
 

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Here's my main issue with an arranged marriage: What if she happens to be an ugly feminazi war pig? If I'm stuck with that, then I'd be forced to take the only way out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lXZhYJcXh2I

I'd rather take my chances with picking a bride.
 

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princess_124 said:
Uhh....no anti-marriage trolls allowed please. Why don't you like marriage? Are you planning to grow old and die alone?


I am already married. Male reason with female emotion. A blissful divine union that frees me from this hell on earth. This is what marriage is all about.

How does saying a few lines to some girl in church bring me closer to God? It doesn't.

i'm never alone when im at peace.

im going to watch sleepy hollow now.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Peaks&Valleys said:
Here's my main issue with an arranged marriage: What if she happens to be an ugly feminazi war pig? If I'm stuck with that, then I'd be forced to take the only way out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lXZhYJcXh2I

I'd rather take my chances with picking a bride.
No! Your mixing up arranged marriage with forced marriage. Parents have wisdom and experience of the world and they know what's good for their kids. But still, they don't force you to marry if you don't like them. The kids do have a saying in the marriage....but the parents suggest the partners.
 

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It won't work for white, black or Hispanic people
 

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How about someone arranged you to get blasted in the a$$ by a huge guy with an oversize penis? Because then he won't have to worry about finding someone who wanted and to not get jailed for rape. It's probably less boring as well, think of the excitement of being completely powerless to who gets to fvck you. I'm sure you'll love it eventually :crackup:

How about you being on the other side? Now how about you was set up with a fugly that nobody would fvck in a lifetime, you'll love her eventually though right? Would never be bored exploring her cracks for yesterdays snacks. Of course this would last forever, because you don't have a choice and nobody on the planet would steal her from you.

Arranged marriage is for pvssies and losers.
 
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