"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Why Aren't We Friends on Facebook"

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flint

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Just wondering if you think that can be an IOI in certain situations, where the girl is trying to signal for you to get her number and get to know her better, or whether you think thats just a casul expression.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Possibly. Could go either way. Assume that it is an IOI. There are plenty of ways to reply to this.

"Who says we're friends in real life?"

"I don't really do facebook. Let me get your number instead..."

etc etc
 
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NewAndImproved said:
"I don't really do facebook. Let me get your number instead..."
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That's a winner right there. Most guys that befriend girls on facebook don't get further than friendship.
 
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GuanYu said:
That's a winner right there. Most guys that befriend girls on facebook don't get further than friendship.
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yep, this is true for the most part.
 
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Kerpal said:
Facebook is bizarre. I just made one a couple of months ago, and only because everyone kept nagging me too, but it seems like everyone on there just wants to push their friend numbers up. I've met people at parties and barely talked to them, and when I get home I already have a friend request from them. It's just creepy.
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that's why I only add ppl who are actually my friends. And I never use it to get girls. Though that being said that's how I began talking to this one girl that now seems interested it me (she was probably interested in me when she added me though).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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