“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why are you on SoSuave?

Why are you on SoSuave?

  • Can't get laid

    Votes: 2 4.5%
  • No experience with chicks whatsoever

    Votes: 6 13.6%
  • Got her hooked...now how do I keep her hooked?

    Votes: 2 4.5%
  • Broken Heart

    Votes: 5 11.4%
  • I got some game, I just want to improve it.

    Votes: 22 50.0%
  • All of the above?

    Votes: 7 15.9%

  • Total voters
    44

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Yea, I was just curious as to what reasons some of you are here...

EDIT: I was personally on here mainly because of 'Broken Heart'.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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blinkwatt

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I'm still around here to help improve my LIFE,not just "game with women". Alot don't take advantage of the tips and how they can be used in your life. Example;
1. The tip on looking your best around women. Why can't you look your best all the time? You never know when you may meet someone high up who can get your a good job or so on.

2. Back straight and speak with confidence. Yes it helps to make you more of a man in womens' eyes,but in everyone elses eyes you are powerful as well. POWER=CONFIDENCE FROM WITHIN,DESIRE FROM OTHERS,SOCIAL PROOF FROM ALL & LOYALTY FROM YOUR COUNTERPARTS
 

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ahh...i forgot all about the 'IMPROVING YOUR OWN LIFE' part in my options =P.
 

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funny...no one seems to be having a problem with 'Got her hooked...now how do I keep her hooked?'....
 

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I'm with blinkwatt on this one. Self-improvement in any area, whether it be women, career, friends etc, can never be a bad thing. Can't say no to anything that can help me become a better person.

Never settle below what you can be :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kurt the KJ

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Sure I'd like to imporve my game and all, but the stories are just fvckin hillarious!
 

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I am on So Suave to throw some beleifs that I see at the PUA community to see how the guys on here will respond to them.

I wrote my "excessive wealth and famous guys thread" to see how the average Joe's who desire to be successful with woman would respond to it.

I knew that they wouldn't like it, but I wrote it because it has a lot of truth to it, and I wanted to read their coments about it.

It was one of those threads that none of the guys on here could refute not to be true, yet at the same time the majority were negative about it, and I thought that they would be.

I want the guys on here to realize that there are many different ways to allure beautiful woman, the PUA stuff is obviously one way of doing this, yet having excessive wealth or a celebrity status is an even better way.

It was a thread that could not be refuted in its truth, yet one that none of the guys on here wanted to read because of their innability to acheive the type of status of which I was writting about.

I have an attractive girl in my life, but I like to throw a few suggestions at these guys to see how they will respond to them, that is why I'm here. :yes:
 

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where's the "cause it's friday, you ain't got no job, and you ain't got sh*t to do" option"?
 

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PRMoon wins.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PRMoon said:
where's the "cause it's friday, you ain't got no job, and you ain't got sh*t to do" option"?
ahh, i should have added a 'self improvement' option, but it totally slipped my mind...i guess 'all of the above' will have to be the closest to that.
 

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I came here first due to a broken heart in 2003. Now I just usually drop advice to help others out. Honestly, I come here because I like coming here.
 
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