"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"why are you looking at me like that?"

papawapa

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I am big on eye contact. Ive had a few chicks as me thatvquestion. Ive responded with something along the lines of 'youre sexy and I like looking at you'

Im tempted to be bold next time and say something like 'cuz I want to **** your brains out.'

Anyone have some good responses ir experience being bold, tell me about it...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A girl once asked me that. I replied, "Because you're pretty". I got a positive response from that.
 

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Well its an honest answer, Ill give you that much.... Not exactly SUAVE though is it?

Try

"Where are you from? You have an exotic look about you.."

There you go - one of my openers. The rest of the conversation is up to you.
 

papawapa

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Looks like I need to clarify, I dont get asked this cold. It has been when I am on a date or hanging out with them but before I have bedded them.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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