"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why are you here on Sunday?

chuchu

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Suppose to be on a date today. She doesn't pick up the phone, doesn't call back, and my other girls are still hanging over from the club this morning. So absolutely no back up date for todaỵ

Didn't know she was a psycho :eek:

Why are you guys here? Let's get out of here.

I'm going to get myself some new clothes, grocery for next week, a hair cut, visit the guys, and some numbers.


Good luck fellas!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I hung out with a chick today and was getting **** blocked by her friend so I said I had to go. lol
 

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I'm on a break from work (could be called back out anytime now..)

And...probably nothing later, seeing how I screwed today up (see WIP)
 

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Went to the shooting range today, took a girl. Good ol' fashioned american fun. The right to bear arms, and arm bears, and all that stuff.
 

chuchu

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Working hard on Sunday huh Docs?

Trends: This one's for you buddy The cooooock blocker!

I got a raquet ball date comming up this week. I was thinking, the only way I can do some hardcore kino is if one of us is way better than the other. If she is too good then I might as well let her show me how to swing the raquet. Then maybe I can invite her over to have dinner for teaching me how to swing. And then....:yes:

I hope not to see you guys here on Sunday anymore!

chuchu
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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damn, chuchu

I really hate disrespectful/dishonest b1tches like you one you were dealing with. That sucks.
 
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