Why are yall so cold

[JPlaya]

I see yall post if a women does this little thing than delete her number lol. I'm not a nice guy, but I do believe in the three strike rule.

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

I can't speak for everyone, but I assume for most people it's a matter of exposure.

Eventually you see the same BS from women over and over again, so you stop giving them the benefit of the doubt. If she misbehaves before she shows you that she's worth keeping, then why bother investing any time in her?

 

[scammbone]

Exactly how I feel. If she irritates me before she intrigues me then thats no deal. But in some cases I will still hit it.

 

[mahoney]

I never delete numbers, facebooks, mails or anything. some of the dudes on here are like alcoholics that need to hide a bottle in case they see it and can't stop themselves

Also a lot of the dudes blame females for their own poor behavior

 

[PapiChulo]

I see yall post if a women does this little thing than delete her number lol. I'm not a nice guy, but I do believe in the three strike rule.

Hey it does not matter how many strikes you take. It was a 3 strike rule before the late 2008, now it's a 2 strike rule, soon it will be one. I don't ask anybody twice anymore. There is no need for that, you change, they change, circumstances change- they will come to you. I delete numbers, delete Facebook connections, delete whatever, they give it to me again when it's time- ha ha. Why should you wait around? Do they give you any reason to hold to this number? Well, than f^%ck them. The point is to make them keep your number. Ha ha Be larger than life.

 

[PapiChulo]

I never delete numbers, facebooks, mails or anything. some of the dudes on here are like alcoholics that need to hide a bottle in case they see it and can't stop themselves

Also a lot of the dudes blame females for their own poor behavior

The more I read your posts, the more i agree with them. It's a female perspective all the way. We sadly don't have that kind of self-control.

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

There is an alternative view of why we delete women's numbers and contact info, and it goes like this:

If I have no intention of seeing her again, why clutter up my fb or cell phone with her information? She wasn't a part of my life before I met her randomly, but then again neither was the guy next to me on the elevator this morning. Both have an equally likely chance of me desiring to contact them in the future, except the girl's info is taking up space on my electronics, whereas the guy on the elevator and I just never exchanged numbers (not like it's a confined space, but I won't even remember who's # it is in a couple of months anyway so it's completely useless to me), so I might as well delete it.

 

[Gam]

I'm not saying that women don't deserve a little slack, BUT sometimes you realize that you have no reason to have this girls number or on fb because quite frankly it's obvious she doesn't have a place in your life.

Why delude yourself into believing that something exists where it does not?

Am not saying dismiss a woman immediately because she does something you dislike, but rather be realistic in your relations with women.

As in, would you keep trash(total rubbish) in your house just because it was familiar knowing that all it was doing was taking up space?

 

[jafyk]

Personally, I'm a realist and I'm not into collecting #s and facebook friends especially if I can see that we are not going to be exchanging any conversations. So, if it's not working out I go ahead and delete them. If they come to their senses they usually will try to contact me again and at that point it's up to me to decide accept or decline. If I accept I'm assuming they've learned their lessons and are preparing to reform. I deleted a girl from class from my facebook. She called me really apologizing (asking me to keep her in my life because she values me) and I believe she was for real so I gave her another chance. Tomorrow we are supposed to be going on a date
The other reason I delete #s and facebook is because I'm doing it for myself. It spares me the temptation of oneitis and going back to them later. To me it's a great shame wanting a girl who doesn't want me back.

 

[PapiChulo]

Spoken like a man.