Why are there so many haters

[Dhoulmagus]

The first time I brought my gf to a party, some random girl tried to start a fight with her. She told me that I made a mistake and started talking ****. In addition, most of my friends are passive haters. They will usually throw in the typical "Are yall still together?" type of bs. Others will straight up try to make me paranoid or say "You really do not need her" type of bs. Do you all experience the same ****? It does not have to about girls, but being successful in life in general. If somebody is doing great, I am just like good job and go on and do my thing. Unless, they brag about it too much, but that's warranted. I like to keep a low key on my successes because of the evil eye lol.

 

[dk1990S111]

totally get what you are saying man. I actually just got into with a friend about this kinda sh1t the other night. When we go out if we see a chick that is his type I will tell him he should go talk to her, I try to encourage him, but he would just get pissy and tell me "why dont you go fvckin talk to her". Apparently all this time he has thought that I was trying to set him up to fail so I could laugh at him when in reality I was trying to pump him up so that he doesnt regret not doing it. So then he starts hating on me when I go to talk to girls. Fvckin bs when you try to have someones back and they are so close minded and ungrateful for that.

 

[salinechow]

totally get what you are saying man. I actually just got into with a friend about this kinda sh1t the other night. When we go out if we see a chick that is his type I will tell him he should go talk to her, I try to encourage him, but he would just get pissy and tell me "why dont you go fvckin talk to her". Apparently all this time he has thought that I was trying to set him up to fail so I could laugh at him when in reality I was trying to pump him up so that he doesnt regret not doing it. So then he starts hating on me when I go to talk to girls. Fvckin bs when you try to have someones back and they are so close minded and ungrateful for that.

That kind of a guy needs clinical evaluation and should be cut loose. If you have history or he is a good buddy otherwise, let him be your friend, but from far far away. Thats some weird sick thinking right there.

 

[Bossman90]

why are you worried about peoples opnions? you shouldn't be there entitled to their own, if they dont like something you are doing in regards to your realtionship then thats their issue and not yours.