Why are the best in bed always crazy?

[Leporello]

I've been dating a girl for about a month and a half now - she's cool, fun, and the sex is unbelievable. Maybe the best I've ever had.

But....she's out of her mind and sooner or later it's going to come and bite me. She's on all kinds of meds, she changes moods in a flash, and she clearly has some issues going a long way back.

It's not just her, either. At least in my life all the biggest freaks have had major problems with depression, self-esteem etc. The well-adjusted ones are comparatively dull, at least sexually.

Why, why does it have to be this way?

 

[ArcBound]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNfXdHJ6Knc

And everything the guy above me said.

 

[Burroughs]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNfXdHJ6Knc

And everything the guy above me said.

Wow that is really incisive...the crazy/hot scale...excellent. :cheer:

And i'm thinking of all the fvcked up biyaches I know.....I have always been attracted to slvts because they are filthy and uninhibited...sadly they can be very dangerous....so the hotness/horniness is not worth dealing with a psychopath.

I think the root cause of this is power games/entitlement....all women feel that THEY SHOULD HAVE MET THEIR RICH HOT MILLIONAIRE by the time they are 22 and their best years are behind them...this makes frigid over-educated girls seize up and it makes sluttier girls pop pills and become more slvtty.

either way its a power play.

remember men fvck for 95% pleasure 5% power

women fvck for 20% pleasure 80% power

women fvck for power...always count your change and check your wallet when dealing with really loose hoes that like buttsecks :yes:

 

[ullysses59]

1. The sex is an act to hook you, its not as tangible and real. Damaged women are often putting on an act so you don't see the real them.

2. They may be more likely to watch porn

3. More likely to use drugs during sex which lowers inhibitions

4. Crazy girls are slvtty to get validation and therefore are more experiences

5. Crazy women who have been sexually abuses dissasociate love from sex and so focus more on the physical aspect.

6. Abuse victims become sexually active much earlier

7. Hotter women tend to be crazy and hotter women can have more partners or seem better in bed than a wilder chick that is less attractive

I agree with Number 1 , 4 and 5

 

[Bible_Belt]

At least with borderlines, I have come to view their disorder as a living thing, like a virus. The women who have it are sex fiend baby machines, and through psychological abandonment they pass it on to their female offspring, who become the virus' new host. The process continues with every generation, and the disorder lives forever, as long as there is a human host. A long time ago, before people knew what a 'virus' was, they would have called it a demon :nervous:

 

[SSBS]

I think it's because the thing that makes them good in bed (neediness) is a huge ego stroke when you are actually doing the deed, but is a major turnoff in every other aspect of the "relationship".

 

[VladPatton]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNfXdHJ6Knc

And everything the guy above me said.

Priceless clip! The Vicky Mendoza line..so Goddamn true!

 

[FrogWife]

I think it's because the thing that makes them good in bed (neediness) is a huge ego stroke when you are actually doing the deed, but is a major turnoff in every other aspect of the "relationship".

So being good in bed is NEEDY?? Good lord almighty, now I've really heard it all...! So I guess you're not very good in bed, right...? I consider a man who's great in bed a PLEASURE, not needy! WHERE do you guys come up with these "theories"???

 

[SSBS]

So being good in bed is NEEDY?? Good lord almighty, now I've really heard it all...! So I guess you're not very good in bed, right...? I consider a man who's great in bed a PLEASURE, not needy! WHERE do you guys come up with these "theories"???

I came up with it through years and years of experiences.

I suspect you are talking about acrobatics, but that is not what makes a woman "good" in bed. In fact I'm not surprised that a woman would write my theory off in the least.

A lot of women talk a big game, but the reality is a lot THINK they are good, but they really aren't. What makes a woman good in bed is when they totally surrender themselves to you. I won't get too graphic here, I'll just leave it for your imagination.

In any event, I never said that men were needy. Hey look a woman trying to even things out and make them 50/50...

Imagine that. :crackup:

 

[foreverAFC]

its because for chicks who are ****ed up in the head, sex and overstimulation become a way for them to escape and disassociate, thats why they get so into it and most of them **** lots of different people.

 

[ullysses59]

Another reason is that a Cluster B PD woman, especially a BPD......has the emotional level of an adolescent AND many as stated use sex to further hook their care giver......They do all kinds of things... it makes SEX incredible .
They also are bonding the male even more emotionally setting him up for an eventual Free fall !

 

[bigneil]

How would you know if the worst in bed weren't also crazy?

 

[Leporello]

Well, speak of the devil...

All of a sudden, nothing. Won't answer calls, won't respond to texts. Just like that. No warning. No discussion.  

Well, it was fun while it lasted.