"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why are some sections of this forum hidden?

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I don't mean the moderators section - it's obvious as to why that's hidden - but other sections like the site feedback and suggestions one, the one about NLP and Speed Seduction (people even still post in that one occasionally!) and the success stories? I see no reason for them to be hidden, especially the site feedback and suggestions one. And it's not even as if these sections are hard to find either. Plus, they are still fully functional; they just don't appear on the main forum index.

Seems odd to me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Smack said:
I don't mean the moderators section - it's obvious as to why that's hidden - but other sections like the site feedback and suggestions one, the one about NLP and Speed Seduction (people even still post in that one occasionally!) and the success stories? I see no reason for them to be hidden, especially the site feedback and suggestions one. And it's not even as if these sections are hard to find either. Plus, they are still fully functional; they just don't appear on the main forum index.

Seems odd to me.
Speed Seduction: Wasn't popular enough

Success Stories: See above

Suggestions and Feedback: Kept getting the exact same suggestions for a while, then stuff turned into a flame war between members and even some members and moderators.
 

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And so if it isn't popular enough, it needs to be hidden? Odd, methinks. Regarding the suggestions and feedback, if the exact same suggestions were getting repeated ad infinitum, then perhaps it would have been a good idea to implement them.
 

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Smack said:
And so if it isn't popular enough, it needs to be hidden? Odd, methinks. Regarding the suggestions and feedback, if the exact same suggestions were getting repeated ad infinitum, then perhaps it would have been a good idea to implement them.
It's hidden because if it is deleted, you *cue dramatic music* can't see the posts, period. With it being hidden, the people that know how to find it can look back over any treasures that are in there.

With the S&F forum, the suggestions that were being asked are already implemented things (age, new colors, forum ideas (you can thank the revival of the "Mature Man" section to them and some persistent moderators too)), things that CAN'T be implemented on this software, or asnine suggestions ("Ban *insert poster here* because they said my post was stupid!").

*Sigh*

I've been here WAYYYYY too long. :crazy:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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They are not really truly hidden; they only do not appear in the forum index. Google them and you can get the links.

It's hidden because if it is deleted, you *cue dramatic music* can't see the posts, period. With it being hidden, the people that know how to find it can look back over any treasures that are in there.

With the S&F forum, the suggestions that were being asked are already implemented things (age, new colors, forum ideas (you can thank the revival of the "Mature Man" section to them and some persistent moderators too)), things that CAN'T be implemented on this software, or asnine suggestions ("Ban *insert poster here* because they said my post was stupid!").

*Sigh*

I've been here WAYYYYY too long.
Too me, a far better solution would be to move some of the good posts that are in these hidden areas into a non-hidden area. Even the archive.
 
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