"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why are some sections of this forum hidden?

Smack

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I don't mean the moderators section - it's obvious as to why that's hidden - but other sections like the site feedback and suggestions one, the one about NLP and Speed Seduction (people even still post in that one occasionally!) and the success stories? I see no reason for them to be hidden, especially the site feedback and suggestions one. And it's not even as if these sections are hard to find either. Plus, they are still fully functional; they just don't appear on the main forum index.

Seems odd to me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Smack said:
I don't mean the moderators section - it's obvious as to why that's hidden - but other sections like the site feedback and suggestions one, the one about NLP and Speed Seduction (people even still post in that one occasionally!) and the success stories? I see no reason for them to be hidden, especially the site feedback and suggestions one. And it's not even as if these sections are hard to find either. Plus, they are still fully functional; they just don't appear on the main forum index.

Seems odd to me.
Speed Seduction: Wasn't popular enough

Success Stories: See above

Suggestions and Feedback: Kept getting the exact same suggestions for a while, then stuff turned into a flame war between members and even some members and moderators.
 

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And so if it isn't popular enough, it needs to be hidden? Odd, methinks. Regarding the suggestions and feedback, if the exact same suggestions were getting repeated ad infinitum, then perhaps it would have been a good idea to implement them.
 

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Smack said:
And so if it isn't popular enough, it needs to be hidden? Odd, methinks. Regarding the suggestions and feedback, if the exact same suggestions were getting repeated ad infinitum, then perhaps it would have been a good idea to implement them.
It's hidden because if it is deleted, you *cue dramatic music* can't see the posts, period. With it being hidden, the people that know how to find it can look back over any treasures that are in there.

With the S&F forum, the suggestions that were being asked are already implemented things (age, new colors, forum ideas (you can thank the revival of the "Mature Man" section to them and some persistent moderators too)), things that CAN'T be implemented on this software, or asnine suggestions ("Ban *insert poster here* because they said my post was stupid!").

*Sigh*

I've been here WAYYYYY too long. :crazy:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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They are not really truly hidden; they only do not appear in the forum index. Google them and you can get the links.

It's hidden because if it is deleted, you *cue dramatic music* can't see the posts, period. With it being hidden, the people that know how to find it can look back over any treasures that are in there.

With the S&F forum, the suggestions that were being asked are already implemented things (age, new colors, forum ideas (you can thank the revival of the "Mature Man" section to them and some persistent moderators too)), things that CAN'T be implemented on this software, or asnine suggestions ("Ban *insert poster here* because they said my post was stupid!").

*Sigh*

I've been here WAYYYYY too long.
Too me, a far better solution would be to move some of the good posts that are in these hidden areas into a non-hidden area. Even the archive.
 
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