I've lived in my current city for six years. I know the area pretty well and know lots of people.
I have to admit I am shocked by how many people remain single, some of them the entire time I've been in town. I can understand why unattractive people remain single. But I know quite a few attractive women who have been single for months or even years. It strikes me as very strange. Some lead men on for months on end. Others are in brief relationships off and on. Some seem relatively content being single and socializing with female friends. Others get wrapped up in school and/or work and don't seem to show much interest in meeting men.
There's also a subgroup of not so good looking guys who are like the ugly goofballs in night at the roxbury. They love the club/bar/party life (even if there isn't much of one), love going out, love socializing. They get thrilled at the thought of even talking to a girl or even bumping into a girl and think it's a 'score.' Just totally clueless guys who spam attend every social event and spam approach girls who just laugh at them.
What's strange is that the not so attractive singles never work on their appearance even though it's key to landing a partner. And the attractive singles seem to have low motivation to be in a relationship, and stay perpetually single. I find it strange, that's all.
I have to admit I am shocked by how many people remain single, some of them the entire time I've been in town. I can understand why unattractive people remain single. But I know quite a few attractive women who have been single for months or even years. It strikes me as very strange. Some lead men on for months on end. Others are in brief relationships off and on. Some seem relatively content being single and socializing with female friends. Others get wrapped up in school and/or work and don't seem to show much interest in meeting men.
There's also a subgroup of not so good looking guys who are like the ugly goofballs in night at the roxbury. They love the club/bar/party life (even if there isn't much of one), love going out, love socializing. They get thrilled at the thought of even talking to a girl or even bumping into a girl and think it's a 'score.' Just totally clueless guys who spam attend every social event and spam approach girls who just laugh at them.
What's strange is that the not so attractive singles never work on their appearance even though it's key to landing a partner. And the attractive singles seem to have low motivation to be in a relationship, and stay perpetually single. I find it strange, that's all.