why are most girls taken? why are there more men around?

[MrNiceGuy]

jeez, I've obviously got to look at the way I'm wording my posts..

I wasn't asking for advice at all (hence the use of 'why' rather than 'what' in my questions).. I know I've just got to go out there grab opporunities that come along and create opportunities where previously I'd have sat and done nothing.. Agreed on how the JBY advice is rubbish, since it will only work if you have already elevated yourself to DJ status.. for those of us who aren't we need to elevate ourselves to that level by practicing before JBY will work.

No, I just wanted to start a discussion on this subject.. see what people thought about why this seemed to be the case. The main thing, is I can't think of many situations where women consistently outnumber the men.. whereas there seem to be plenty that are the reverse..
and I've never been to any clubs pubs or bars where there have been more women than men.. (and I've been to a few) I think its safe to say that not as many girls go out.. but why???

agreed tho on the stigma for women in being single.. i.e they'd rather be in a mediocre relationship than none at all.. whereas for men its often the reverse.. plus the fact that once relationships start to get long term (ie more than a couple of months) they become that much harder to break off.. so that kinda explains why so many girls aren't single.. still why don't they go out...??

 

[GirlCrazy]

Almost all my friends are women, so I'm looking at this problem in reverse. My single female friends complain that all the good guys out there are taken. Most of my female friends that are in LTR's could be snatched away by the right guy as well. Women have the exact same issues in this area, only they are at a disadvantage because women are taught to be passive and wait for guys to come to them. Men have it easier because we are expected to take the iniatiaive and go out and find the women we want, where most women tend to sit around hoping the right guy will ask them out.

There's no shortage of available women. The problem is there's a shortage of guys out there willing to do what it takes to snag them.

 

[cestmoi]

Originally posted by GirlCrazy
Almost all my friends are women, so I'm looking at this problem in reverse. My single female friends complain that all the good guys out there are taken. Most of my female friends that are in LTR's could be snatched away by the right guy as well. Women have the exact same issues in this area, only they are at a disadvantage because women are taught to be passive and wait for guys to come to them. Men have it easier because we are expected to take the iniatiaive and go out and find the women we want, where most women tend to sit around hoping the right guy will ask them out.

There's no shortage of available women. The problem is there's a shortage of guys out there willing to do what it takes to snag them.

Perfectly SAID. This just about sums it up.

 

[ShortTimer]

Originally posted by GirlCrazy
There's no shortage of available women. The problem is there's a shortage of guys out there willing to do what it takes to snag them.

I would agree with this if you had said something like "there is no shortage of women if you don't care what quality you get." Let's be real here, most normal guys could get laid any night they wanted -- if they had no standards as to what warpig they ****ed.

So yes, there is a shortage of quality women... hell there is a shortage of quality people out there. Don't go thinking that just any chick will do: a good woman can enhance your life greatly, and a bad one can destroy it.

 

[318 Most Hated]

Originally posted by GirlCrazy


There's no shortage of available women. The problem is there's a shortage of guys out there willing to do what it takes to snag them.

true dat....