why are girls freaked out by guys with shoe/foot fetishes?

[Robert28]

my name is Robert and i have a foot/shoe fetish. its only about certain women, i HAVE to be attracted to them and it's not one of those crazy i want to steal her shoes or do weird sh!t to her feet type of fetishes. it's more of a dang, her feet are hot! or man, she looks hot in those shoes! that sort of thing. what i want to know is why do women find this weird? they spend countless $$$ on pedicures, nail polish, shoes they think will make them look/feel sexy but if a guy notices or likes that, then he's considered "creepy", or a freak, or a perv, or weird? that's like me working out and a woman going "hey youre pretty buff" and me be like "oh you weird b!tch get away! thats soo creepy! you should be bound and gagged for even noticing such a thing! you monster!" see my point? hope so. another thing that baffles my mind is this. you ever looked at a girls profile on face book or myspace and notice that every 3 out of 5 profiles contain at LEAST one shot of her feet, her and her friends feet, a pic of just her feet in her new shoes, or a pic of her and her friends feet with a comment such as "our hot shoes!" or something to that effect? well then i now ask you what makes it so bad if i ask those same girls to take a pic for me? all of a sudden its weird or creepy, or something like that. i just want someone to explain this to me and make me see what it is with women not liking guys with shoe/foot fetishes.

 

[Cinamon]

Not all girls are freaked out by guys with foot/shoe fetishes. A number of women like to use it as foreplay. It didnt bother me in the least that my ex had a foot fetish, but the foot w@nks became hard work after a while.

How well do oyu know the girls before you ask them for a pic of their feet?

 

[pua1989]

another thing that baffles my mind is this. you ever looked at a girls profile on face book or myspace and notice that every 3 out of 5 profiles contain at LEAST one shot of her feet, her and her friends feet, a pic of just her feet in her new shoes, or a pic of her and her friends feet with a comment such as "our hot shoes!" or something to that effect? well then i now ask you what makes it so bad if i ask those same girls to take a pic for me? all of a sudden its weird or creepy, or something like that. i just want someone to explain this to me and make me see what it is with women not liking guys with shoe/foot fetishes.

definitely never noticed that in my life

 

[Phat]

You need a reality check man. Your so pathedic you worship womens feet? What the fuuck is wrong with you people.

 

[Vulnerability]

Is because women is stupid creature at times.

In situ, they dont not understand the feet.

It is your job career to make them understand feet.

 

[Robert28]

You need a reality check man. Your so pathedic you worship womens feet? What the fuuck is wrong with you people.

you need a reading class. nowhere in my post did i ever say i worshiped women or their feet.

 

[Robert28]

Not all girls are freaked out by guys with foot/shoe fetishes. A number of women like to use it as foreplay. It didnt bother me in the least that my ex had a foot fetish, but the foot w@nks became hard work after a while.

How well do oyu know the girls before you ask them for a pic of their feet?

ok maybe not all, but i would guess 90% are weird about it. i didn't know i had to know their life history before asking for a pic. i just figured since they already had pics like that then they would be ok with taking more.

 

[DJDamage]

Maybe you are laying it too thick, also you have to admit that most men that have foot fetish tend to be portrayed as 'wierdo's' and some in fact are wierd(not that I am calling you one but I think a few famous serial killers/rapists had that fetish as well).

In your case its best not to mention right off the bat that you have a foot fetish. Asking for a girl you barley know to show you a picture of her feet will send alarm bells in her head.

 

[thedude4242]

there are legit men who like a girl with nice feet. it is another feature like boobs, bvtts, faces, ect. that doesnt mean you want footjobs or to suck on their toes or anything like that. it is just nice to know that she has another nice feature you like. you dont even want to lick her feet ore anything. it is just a pet peave you have to want a woman with nice feet. I know guys who watch porn and like when a girl is completely naked and you can see her feet during sex. I am not talking a close-up its just when they show them on porn and you can see them with the rest of the body. IMO women do look the best in stilletos, pumps and flats. one thing I noticed about men with these kind of likings usually have a higher-standard of women.

 

[servo1234567]

why are girls freaked out by guys with shoe/foot fetishes?
Because it's really freakin' weird. Now, you assume that weird is bad thing. Weird just means not in the norm. If you found a girl who was into having her feet admired, would it be weird? Hell yes, it would be! But for you, that would be perfect. Maybe ease into your talk about feet until you're more comfortable with girls. Don't be self-conscious about it but don't flaunt it either.

 

[Kailex]

Maybe it's the way you are looking at their feet?
Maybe it's the way you bring up the conversation about feet?

Because most women I know, like being complimented about ANYTHING. It doesn't matter what... so maybe it's more about your delivery or how you are looking at them or the way you are bringing it up that is scaring them.

It's not as weird as you think to admire a woman's feet/hands. I do, because feet/hand can tell you "something" about their personal hygiene.

 

[HeyPachuco!]

Theres something I lust about a girl having there heels, slip ones, sneakers on and fully buttnaked straight getting RAILED.

Other than that, if you're talking about licking, kissing and effing feet, that is WEIRD and its not freaky, exotic or unique. Getting you're weener stamped on or sucking toes is a sign of pedestalling and un-worthy.

 

[thedude4242]

fully butt naked is nice when you can see the feet but sucking toes and stuff is degrading. you ever see them guys who like to be put in diapers and stuff and have women changed their diapers and baby them???? sick.

 

[Bible_Belt]

You have to compromise. Tell her you like her shoes, stockings, socks, whatever. Women can relate to that. They like clothes and shoes. They do not, however, typically get turned on by a simple pic of a body part like guys do.

 

[Trader]

my name is Robert and i have a foot/shoe fetish. its only about certain women, i HAVE to be attracted to them and it's not one of those crazy i want to steal her shoes or do weird sh!t to her feet type of fetishes. it's more of a dang, her feet are hot! or man, she looks hot in those shoes! that sort of thing. what i want to know is why do women find this weird? they spend countless $$$ on pedicures, nail polish, shoes they think will make them look/feel sexy but if a guy notices or likes that, then he's considered "creepy", or a freak, or a perv, or weird? that's like me working out and a woman going "hey youre pretty buff" and me be like "oh you weird b!tch get away! thats soo creepy! you should be bound and gagged for even noticing such a thing! you monster!" see my point? hope so. another thing that baffles my mind is this. you ever looked at a girls profile on face book or myspace and notice that every 3 out of 5 profiles contain at LEAST one shot of her feet, her and her friends feet, a pic of just her feet in her new shoes, or a pic of her and her friends feet with a comment such as "our hot shoes!" or something to that effect? well then i now ask you what makes it so bad if i ask those same girls to take a pic for me? all of a sudden its weird or creepy, or something like that. i just want someone to explain this to me and make me see what it is with women not liking guys with shoe/foot fetishes.

I know why but I am only going to bother spending time typing it out if you will consider getting rid of that fetish.

 

[NeedToImprove]

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[NeedToImprove]

i think foot fetish is pretty freaky myself so no wonder women think that too.

 

[Desdinova]

There's nothing wrong with liking a woman's feet. A woman who has small feminine feet can be sexy. Ever see woman with fence pickets for feet? If she wears ANYTHING close to my shoe size, I'd be wary of a d1ck dangling between her legs.

Also, women should take care of their feet just like they take care of the rest of their bodies. This is a female, she's supposed to be smooth, absent of body hair, and smell like candy. If her feet look and smell like a construction worker, she's not a woman.

 

[CarlitosWay]

Sexy feet turn me on to...yet OP I would keep this fetish to yourself until you get a girlfriend. lol she would probably be more receptive to something like this ...pics of feeeet http://tnation.tmuscle.com/free_onl...vers_foot_fetish_revamped?id=3271524&pageNo=1

 

[2crudedudes]

I don't have a fetish nor am I an expert here, but I do like licking a woman's feet if I am comfortable with her. I mean, I like to lick em all over, really, so its not like I get hung up on the feet.

It really depends on how strong your fascination for feet is, and how obvious you make it. You mention how women spend a lot of time on their feet, but you fail to mention that they also spend a lot of time on other parts of their body, yet you're not as fascinated by those other bits.

Also, being attracted to a woman's feet is relatively healthy I imagine, but SHOES? Really dude? You like women's shoes?

I don't know what to say about that.