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Why are even ugly girls so entitled?

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This girl at my work is 24, 5'3" and I'd wager 140lb. Not fat but certainly an impressive muffin top and flabby arms. She is covered in dry skin, moles and other miscellaneous flaws, she has a big nose, jowls and is caked in a half inch of makeup to cover her craggy grey palour

For all intents she's a 3/10 wouldn't touch even if drunk. However she acts like she's a 10, I overheard a convo with her and another average girl at lunch and she was talking about this guy who keeps texting her wanting to take her out.

Some highlights:

"I only go for guys over 6'0" "
" he needs a good job to keep me happy, I have expensive tastes"
"He needs to be athletic"

So this scungy 3/10 basically thinks she deserves a tall, athletic rich guy. I felt like saying those kinds of guys want a girl a fair few levels above you.

It just makes me laugh, a girl like that should be happy with whatever scraps she gets thrown.
 

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Princess syndrome.

They were raised every day of their lives with it, they see it in media every day, so they expect it in real life.

There are some good ones out there. Tougher to find all the time.
 

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5'3" and 140? She's fat by my standards. By the times she's 30 she'll be 180 and even more of a annoying tw@t. But I bet she's got lots of FB friends haha.
 

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This plague has been happening in Chicago for the last 8-9 years. These "thick" chicks and even ugly little pencil chicks think they are all 10s. Funny thing is some guys sweat these girls which in turn boosts up their ego, throw in some nicki minaj and some BETA AFCs and you got a recipe for disaster.

I was at a bar one time with 2 of my boys, some chick who was a HB 4 1/2 (she had a decent slim body, I like curvy girls real curves not fat girls who think they are curvy) I turn around and she happens to me standing behind me talking to some piasa. I just turned around to absorb my enviroment, she then looks at me and says "what are you looking at"? I said "not you you're ugly" BOOOOOMMMMM should of seen the shock on her face, she proceeded to walk away stunned and I loved every moment of it
 

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Weird, I was just thinking about this entitlement issue this morning. There’s a chick very similar to the one in the OP I work with who I can't fcking stand anyway. She insists on have all of her private conversations right in the middle of the office – basically because she has nothing interesting to say. So last night she was ripping it out of a guy she was about to meet about how she couldn’t really be bothered and he’d probably just have food in his beard or some sh!t. If you can’t be bothered, don’t fcking bother. He’ll probably only be more disappointed with you anyway.

BibleBelt made a pertinent point. Those who actually deserve the Prince Charming will not wax lyrical about them, at least not in public. They’ll have private conversations with their gfs. By far the highest quality chick in the office comes in, does her work, says next to nothing to anyone, then goes home to her lucky bastard bf. The loudest ones are those who are seeking the attention and proving their self worth. The same goes for those who's sense of humour is limited to 'sarcastic', 'dark' and casting judgement upon others.

Yannick makes a good one too about online dating. Traditionally, people who are out of shape used to simply post passport type photos (basically hiding their bodies). One of the last OLD I went on, it transpires that the bird was actually passing off some of her (much hotter) flatmates pictures as herself, along with couple of (very old ones) of her own.

I’ve also started deciphering the woman-speak and meanings of photos in the online profiles. One that recently occurred to me – ‘I like travelling as much as possible/engaging in expensive hobbies like ‘learning to sail through Croatia’....’ = ‘You’ll have to be rich enough to take me abroad at least five times a year’. Any photos on white sand Caribbean beaches or random yachts = ‘I’m expecting to meet my Sugar Puff Daddy on a free dating website.’

Forget free online dating. The standards are too low while the expectations, comparatively too high. I have just joined a paying site, though not considering paying until I find mutual interest, and the standard has immediately jumped from an average of about 3/10 to a fair 7/10.
 

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It happens because we live in a world now where every girl is told she is beautiful in some way, every player gets a prize and every kid gets a ribbon in the race.
 

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If the average guy behave like a beggars and treats the average girl as a princes, its no wonder she will consider herself a princess and consider him a beggar.
 

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Girls are conditioned by society to believe that they are the prize. Guys on the other hand... Society doesn't teach us how to be alpha. It teaches us how to be nice. Almost all of us on SS had to learn the hard way.
 

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ive got one of these that works with me

likes to talk about sex at any oppuritunity she can

she also uses lots of sexual innuendo too which is lame when i would never want to think about doing anything with her let alone have sex

i give her one word answers to everything and most days dont even acknowledge her presence seems to work
 

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Infern0 said:
This girl at my work is 24, 5'3" and I'd wager 140lb. Not fat but certainly an impressive muffin top and flabby arms. She is covered in dry skin, moles and other miscellaneous flaws, she has a big nose, jowls and is caked in a half inch of makeup to cover her craggy grey palour
Fat, ugly girls are ultimately undesirable, but at that age many guys will pick them up for sex because they have the parts. So because maybe some halfway decent guy had sex with her once in a desperate, drunken moment, she thinks she can get that guy for a relationship. She's been pumped and dumped multiple times so she has a bit of an attitude.

So she ends up being a weird mix of trying to be confident (girls get told this too), actual confidence (that's unjustified), and bitterness.
 

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Don't go online dude there are zillions of those. She will stay single for a long time.

People like that know far to well what they look like and they try to lie to themselves.

I met one on POF about 2 months ago she told me she trained, and all, she showed up at least 30 pounds more then her pic, she had that black fur on her forearms she was disgusting. At 35 she looked well over 45.

She tells me i am not her type of guy at all that i look a lot older then 42 at that time and that her ex was super hot and at 45 he looked younger then me.

I started laughing it was just too funny, and i told her off.

35 works at tim horton has 2 kids full time, she got everything going for here.
Why even bother with POF? I mean it's bottom of the barrell why even waste your time meeting up with one of those slags

I see way to many guys here talking about POF you guys are better of meeting some chicks at bars

Fact
 

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MR.LPC said:
Girls are conditioned by society to believe that they are the prize. Guys on the other hand... Society doesn't teach us how to be alpha. It teaches us how to be nice. Almost all of us on SS had to learn the hard way.
This.
 

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I mean...thats all they can do though.

Think about it. They cant jog, eat right, read some healthy books.

Whats left is to fake ir till they make it.

Just stay away, they dont even want to be part of our healthy circle.
 

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This girl I was talking to a month ago online said she was cancelling her account but we should still exchange contact info. So I give her my contact info and she blocked my profile. A month later responds by email apologizing and telling me about what she's been up too. She is very average.
 

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Amilz said:
This girl I was talking to a month ago online said she was cancelling her account but we should still exchange contact info. So I give her my contact info and she blocked my profile. A month later responds by email apologizing and telling me about what she's been up too. She is very average.
Translation: She had a few guys lined up. She met them, probably fvcked at least one of them, but it didn't work out. So she reached out. They do this all the time.
 

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Infern0 said:
Some highlights:

"I only go for guys over 6'0" "
" he needs a good job to keep me happy, I have expensive tastes"
"He needs to be athletic"
Ever have a conversation at a bar where some random guy starts telling you about his fantastical exploits? He'd tell that he was in special forces, bangs 10's left and right and basically does things that make James Bond's lifestyle seem boring by comparison. What you describe above is the female version of that talk. Chances are, the ug does not have any guy pursuing her, but she needs to keep up the appearances.
 

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Because they have legions of desperate chumps doing anything they can just to get some pvssy.

Once guys stop doing that, the perceived value of pvssy by their owners - no matter how deluded it is - will start to go down. Since guys are so desperate for sex and think chasing down or spending $$ on b*tches is a better way than just focusing on and improving themselves, this isn't going to happen anytime soon.

Don't take online dating personally. Women are generally messed up and aren't known for making good decisions, especially in the men they choose to date. Focus on yourself. As soon as I took a little break from dating and focused on my career, getting healthy (both in physique and attitude), and getting lean muscular and ripped, getting hot bishes became almost effortless.
Brad any tips on how to get lean muscles? I have been doing calisthetics for 3 months I notice a small difference. I want to incorpate light weights, but don't want to get "swoll" or "bulky" just a lean slim muscular look
 

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If you really think about it, how sad is it for a WOMEN to be on POF. Think about it, I don't think its that sad for guys. I know a few of my bros on there strictly as another avenue for sex. They already get ass in real life, POF is just another path for getting laid.

Now with the way women act, I think its 10x more pathetic you find women on a site like POF. And the women from the chicago area on there are really unattractive
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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