"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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why are black people so rude?

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Berlex said:
why does the OP like to generalize?
It's easy because it's all that they see. That could be because it is all that they are looking for but what do I know...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I didn't want to cause any havoc here. But if you want you can lock the thread.
 

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i can smell the loser mall-shooting trolls comeing outta hiding on this one LOL
 

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I do think it's pretty sad that even well-adjusted black guys often feel the need to adopt a stupid gangster persona. They seem to think that if they're not acting like a thug, they are not cool.

very un-DJish, imo

White people sometimes do the same, with hilarious results. Yo yo, bling. Lol. All y'all. Snicker.
 

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Slavery....Black people act rude toward white people because in the back of their mind they see their great grandmothers and great grand fathers who had to struggle. They see that it pisses them off, and they hate white people for it. God damn just deal with it...WHITE PEOPLE JUST DEAL WITH ANGRY BLACK PEOPLE... Our ancestors had to go through slavery and you have to deal with angry black people...JUST DEAL WITH IT... YOU GUYS HAVE IT EASY...

I'm black...I go to a college in Iowa with 500 black students... out of 10,000 students. In most of my classes I'm the only black person... Do I cry about? no I deal with it. Do I cry when I get pulled over for no reason? no I deal with it. Do I cry when a white person does some racist s h i t to me? NO I DEAL WITH IT(actually I f u c k them up if they do it on purpose). Do I cry when I meet a white person up here and the first question they ask is "what sport do you play"? NO I DEAL WITH IT. When I walk around campus white people look at me like I crazy. Some are even spooked by me because I'm black...

DEAL WITH IT... N u t the f u c k up and deal with it...
If I killed every white person that did some racist s h i t to me i'd have a wrap sheet longer than Osama Bin Laden.

Do I hate white people?? NO
Do I hold it over white people and act like the "Angry black man"??? NO

There are @$$holes in all races...I guess I'm weird...I judge people on how they act individually. Not on what race they are and how they are expected to act.

Not everybody is as smart as me though... SO JUST DEAL WITH IT.

Would it kill you to put yourself in someone else's shoes?

So let's put you in a 17 yr old black kid's shoes. Let's say he's from Chicago (hey I happen to be from there)

Wake up in the mourning...
Take the long way to the bus stop so the black stones don't jump you...
Get to school, oh the metal detector's broke, wait in line for 30 mins....
Get to english class...Your the only one with your homework....
Everyone makes fun of you and calls you a nerd because you actually give a damn...
Its 3:00 time to run again so the vice lords don't jump you...
Get home....The power's off...Looks like your mom couldn't afford to pay the bill on time...
Your best friend now sells crack and wants you to join the business with him...You'll have money in your pocket but your not sure...
You walk to the corner store to get some chips...
Chicago PD squad car sees you...They flash their lights and stop you...They degrade you search you and ask you "where's the drugs"
They slap you around for a little bit then let you go...
You get home and your dad is beating on your mom...
(Yea all this s h it happened to me in one day...true story)

Thats the day in the life of a black kid living in the hood...


You wouldn't be mad????

Sorry if this post is confusing to people...DEAL WITH IT

Maybe if you guys stopped worrying about black people and what we're doing wrong(YES WE'RE DOING A LOT OF S H IT WRONG I KNOW) You guys could be getting more @$$ from females...

I swear I can't wait to graduate from college. I'm going somewhere , where I don't have to deal with STUPID PEOPLE(And thats from ALL RACES)...Anywhere but america
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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All races got pricks. I meet cool black cats in up state new york as well as cool whites dudes. People look at black dudes bad cuz they listen to hiphop and dress in baggy clothes. Judging off music preference and dressing style is boggus and we should never judge a book by its cover. With that being said peace out to all in here.
 

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Good post, Mr. Stabaho.

I'm black and I go to a 4% Black school. People talk **** and look at you strange all the time. You gotta just sack up and deal with it. Those were the cards fate dealt you, so w/e.

On topic, OP is obviously an idiot. Let's leave it at that and close thread.
 

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What is the point of this thread does it in anyway relates to seduction? Genralizing black people is cheap yes there are some obnioxus blacks but there is also some obnioxus white people aswell thats life we are all individuals.
 

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Futureketekun, instead of "Why are black people rude?" it should be "Why are CERTAIN black people rude?" or "Why are people rude in the first place?" The answer is the way they're brought up. All races are equally rude. Wolf is just being a troll, nothing more nothing less. Brett012, regardless of trying to save face....even those guys who follow the stereotype to an extent shouldn't be shot. Its like different races playing their stereotypical negative music LOUD and jamming to it. U want them to be shot too? C'mon man. But LostAnd, i understand where ur coming from. When i was growing up, people kept saying "Why do you talk white?" or "Why do u like white girls?" I felt that same pressure and really wasn't considered that cool image till i said "**** it" or "Yea and?" and never got questioned it again.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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