"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why are b1tches acting this way

AlphaNoob

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A lot of times when I ask a girl out, she gets shy and speaks very nervously.
I usually have a little of rapport built between us.
What would happen is I go up to her ask her some questions and small talk for a little and then proceed to ask her for her number or ask her out. They start to talk less confidently. They would give me a very timid yes and then I smile and say see you later.
Then after a bit sometimes right away, sometimes the next day, the girl would express some doubt through text. Like "i have to think about it" and bs like that.
So why does this keep happening to me? I do get a little nervous when I pop the questions, is that the problem? Is my nervous vibe causing this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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stevo

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You'd lose more than you win, but you will win.

If you don't build up rapport as much in person (try your hardest to, the more she likes you first time, the better) then try to build some rapport over text, she's relaxed so are you, your first text shouldn't be lets meet up, text her a bit, 5 - 6 messages before bringing up the "let's get together, when works for you?" anything other than a positive response to this, Next her the second you receive the message.
 

jimmy18

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If you don't know what law of state transfer is, it's basically whatever you feel, she feels.

If you feel nervous when talking to her then so will she, and she will interpret this as you having FEAR.
 
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