"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why are b1tches acting this way

AlphaNoob

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A lot of times when I ask a girl out, she gets shy and speaks very nervously.
I usually have a little of rapport built between us.
What would happen is I go up to her ask her some questions and small talk for a little and then proceed to ask her for her number or ask her out. They start to talk less confidently. They would give me a very timid yes and then I smile and say see you later.
Then after a bit sometimes right away, sometimes the next day, the girl would express some doubt through text. Like "i have to think about it" and bs like that.
So why does this keep happening to me? I do get a little nervous when I pop the questions, is that the problem? Is my nervous vibe causing this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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stevo

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You'd lose more than you win, but you will win.

If you don't build up rapport as much in person (try your hardest to, the more she likes you first time, the better) then try to build some rapport over text, she's relaxed so are you, your first text shouldn't be lets meet up, text her a bit, 5 - 6 messages before bringing up the "let's get together, when works for you?" anything other than a positive response to this, Next her the second you receive the message.
 

jimmy18

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If you don't know what law of state transfer is, it's basically whatever you feel, she feels.

If you feel nervous when talking to her then so will she, and she will interpret this as you having FEAR.
 
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