"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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why are all women like this?

JdelaSilviera

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The least you care, the more they pursue or care about you.

It´s unbelievable that even female friends, will call you more often, if you don´t answer or ignore their calls/texts. And I´m not of course speaking about contacting you because you didn´t return a certain phone call, their frequency of contacts highly increases... (many times becomes anoying)
Why is that?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jariel

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It's crazy ain't it? Women don't operate by logic and are counter intuitive.

I've got too many women pestering me right now, a couple of stalkers, some really desperate and needy, and yet I'm not interested in any of them. On the other hand, there is one woman I'm really into, and it's her that's backing off and acting cool.

But once you know this is how women work, you can start to use it to your advantage.
 

Sophomakhos

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Actually this is not so surprising. It's irrational and counter-intuitive, but it's also perfectly typical human psychology. Think of the child who wants a toy that someone else is playing with, but, when it gets it, it's suddenly not interested anymore - the only reason it wanted it in the first place was because it didn't have it. People want what they think they can't have, because it seems exclusive. Another example - think of car companies like Ferrari and Lamoborghini that design a sports car but only make a few hundred models - the car is exclusive, and so it's more desirable. What kind of person owns an exclusive sports car? Clearly someone who is rich and successful!

It's like selling a lifestyle, the lifestyle of the successful person. Successful people don't settle for the stuff that everyone else has, they go and take the things that other people can't have. It's exactly the same with women. They want the man that most women can't have, and you just have to make her think that most women aren't good enough to have you. Not necessarily an easy thing to do, mind you.
 

Quiksilver

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Isn't it obvious?

They're retarded.

Now learn to deal with it and love them for it. ;)
 
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