"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why are AFC alpha males scared of intelligent HB's?

flippinfreak

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I mean, COME ON, what is it that is so scary about them?

I know your going to come up with some macho argument saying, "they are wrong! They don't know what they really want!"

To me, an intelligent woman, who knows what she wants is a force to be reckoned with. She is scorned easily, and she stands her ground. As an alpha male would respect arguments, so does she, but when something is blatantly and obviously wrong she'll stand up for her beliefs.

Most guys don't respect the beliefs, and start to attack her character, which is 100% the wrong way to go about doing business with ANYBODY.

Intelligent females aren't always berated by men, they are also attacked by women as well. If they are intelligent at anything other than socially normalized traits, they are despised by certain males who can't STAAAAAAND to be beaten by a female of higher status.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cruise

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Betas being intimidated by Alphas, in other words.
 

Q-Pid

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Alpha Females > Beta Males

Alphaness isn't always determined by sex. Some Females can be more alpha then men. I'm sure Hillary Clinton could AFOG most people on this forum. :crackup:
 

flippinfreak

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Exactly, there are a lot on this site who will cower from this question. They'll jump in as soon as they can accuse somebody of using "chick arguments" though. Also, they are going to totally rag on feminism as the main point of debate.

I want to label conservative males from progressive males on this site.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kerm

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To be quite honest, intelligent women are so sexy to me. I consider myself to be a relatively smart person and i love being able to talk to a woman at that elevated level. And when im being CF or whatever with these girls, i find it a lot easier to joke with these girls. They still get subtle jokes, and overall i find the experience to be that much more involved and fun.

Girls that stare at me with a blank look, or laugh because they think they should, not because they get the joke, are really only good for one thing. No matter how hot this girl is, i don't really want more than sex. I have to be able to talk to a girl without dumbing anything down for our relationship to be anything more. And also, i love that these girls can challenge me. That in itself says a lot about a girl.
 

El MonoLoco

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AFC alpha males???????

Don't exist as far as I know....

But really smart women can be very sexy. They usually know how to take care of themselves (physically and mentally)......I don't know very many dumb women as I try to avoid them.....

To each his own I guess....


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truthfully who gives a fk??? A women is a women; a man is a man.

I thought we were over all this alpha shyt.....

WTF is an afc alpha males??? There is no such thing in the natural world. Maybe at sci fi conventions and at battle star role playing clubs.
 

Q-Pid

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flippinfreak said:
Exactly, there are a lot on this site who will cower from this question. They'll jump in as soon as they can accuse somebody of using "chick arguments" though. Also, they are going to totally rag on feminism as the main point of debate.

I want to label conservative males from progressive males on this site.
Yeah threads like this often degenerate into arguments on the validity of feminism. Which is a shame, because the original sentiment of the thread is ignored in favour of tired old arguments being recycled aknew with fresh words.

Intelligent women are the best type of women, much like Kerm said.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SELF-MASTERY

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honestly, who wants a dumb girl???
 
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