"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why are 85% of women AIRHEADS?

HeyPachuco!

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Its seriously a dilemma. No matter if you get the HB10's or not they're all majority AIRHEADS. WHY? and how can you combat this?

When they're in class however, they're suddenly not airheads. I give this one girl (one of my plates) a nickname, she has a huge bvtt for her height. She said to me "what do you mean by that ..? " So I said then, " Oh I meant FLAT SORRY :) .."

Its just not logical. Is there anyway to get straight to the point without phone calls, texting and other assorted nonsense. I'm really getting highly annoyed with communicatiing via phone/ internet and want more face to face contact, how can I do this quicker without seeming desperate..?

I just want to hump, without inconvenience. Quicker ways to get a date/ hangout please?
I got the " I'LL LET YOU KNOW BABE.." when asked to hangout. . followed by " WHAT?, DO YOU LIKE ME OR SOMETHING LOL .."

Where can I go to read more on these subjects and what to say? What THREADS?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Its all in where you fish, lately it seems like every girl I've met is a student, frequently even a masters student. Which is fine but its annoying when you want to go out and she has to study or is broke or has a night class or whatever. If all the girls you're meeting are bimbo's, change up the place you meet girls.
 

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Thats exactly what I've been noticing aswell. With girls doing so much studying they cannot hangout, yet when the weekend comes, it clearly states that they're going clubbing with their g/fs.

I agree to change up my location for pulling girls. But even in that sense, still airheads.

I have this Thai girl who does dance on one of her subjects, says she isn't busy tommorow. But she lives so far away I dont know if its worth it? She has a free house till 4, and she finishes class at 11.
 

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HeyPachuco! said:
I have this Thai girl who does dance on one of her subjects, says she isn't busy tommorow. But she lives so far away I dont know if its worth it? She has a free house till 4, and she finishes class at 11.
If its a lock, or there's some chemistry than go for it, if its a long shot and you're going to schlep your ass to BFE to be good company, I'd say save yourself the gas money and the energy and put it towards finding fresh talent tomorrow night.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HeyPachuco! said:
Thats exactly what I've been noticing aswell. With girls doing so much studying they cannot hangout, yet when the weekend comes, it clearly states that they're going clubbing with their g/fs.
You have it wrong brother. This same slut that is too busy "studying" will suck ____ on springbreak minutes after meeting this "super hot" guy. Women are slutty little things don't you forget it. If they say they are going to be busy "studying" the female translation is they are too busy FOR YOU!

If a woman really wants a man she will ____ him minutes after meeting him and will do whatever she can to meet up with him somewhere so that another woman doesn't end up snatching him. If a woman does not want a man she will put obstacles and will show disinterest. Pretty simple, women are not so complicated.

I always suggest reading THE 2 STRIKES RULE to get some common sense into your game
 

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f283000 said:
You have it wrong brother. This same slut that is too busy "studying" will suck ____ on springbreak minutes after meeting this "super hot" guy. Women are slutty little things don't you forget it. If they say they are going to be busy "studying" the female translation is they are too busy FOR YOU!

If a woman really wants a man she will ____ him minutes after meeting him and will do whatever she can to meet up with him somewhere so that another woman doesn't end up snatching him. If a woman does not want a man she will put obstacles and will show disinterest. Pretty simple, women are not so complicated.

I always suggest reading THE 2 STRIKES RULE to get some common sense into your game
I fully endorse this post. Been there a bazillion times myself. Think of it another way, which is what I tell guys who are dealing wtih flakes since this is essentially the same thing... If a girl met her favorite celeb or musician or whatever in line at Starbucks and was invited to hang out with them a certain night, you know damn well she'd be there come hell or high water studying be damned. IMO if she's not that excited as I describe to hang out with you where she'll shirk work, school, etc., then you have work to do in terms of building interest & attraction on her part.
 

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HeyPachuco! said:
Is there anyway to get straight to the point without phone calls, texting and other assorted nonsense. I'm really getting highly annoyed with communicatiing via phone/ internet and want more face to face contact, how can I do this quicker without seeming desperate..?

I just want to hump, without inconvenience. Quicker ways to get a date/ hangout please?
Read Alan Roger Currie's book, 'Mode One'. It's all about being upfront and to the point with girls about what you want, so you waste as little as your time and money as possible and can quickly weed out the girls who don't have the same interests as you (i.e. casual sex etc).

Check out www.modeone.net and http://www.direct-method.com/forumdisplay.php?f=105...read some of the older posts in that forum and you'll understand what Mode One is all about.

PM me if you want any more info.
 

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you are showing waaaay to much interest and these girls are tooling you, they sense probably a slight desperation.

girls arent airheads, some of them are validation junkies but there are quality girls out there too. you current approach needs tweeking. I recommmend getting some female friends and not trying to sleep with them, get used to hanging out with girls.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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kingy said:
you are showing waaaay to much interest and these girls are tooling you, they sense probably a slight desperation.

girls arent airheads, some of them are validation junkies but there are quality girls out there too. you current approach needs tweeking. I recommmend getting some female friends and not trying to sleep with them, get used to hanging out with girls.
Do we know eachother...? and you're way out your jurisdiction bud.


Would Clint Eastwood be ''hanging out'' with girls,also, I have female friends. I dont ''hang out'' with them, thats for queers, steers and the rest of ladyettes.
 

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was replying to your question and giving advice, didnt realise i had to know you to reply

I got the " I'LL LET YOU KNOW BABE.." when asked to hangout. . followed by " WHAT?, DO YOU LIKE ME OR SOMETHING LOL .."

both these texts show you are showing waaaay too much interest ;-)

p.s. you learn way more about girls and how to talk to them by guess what Actually Hanging Out with Them - hows that for a radical idea lol

not by looking up threads.

p.s. im pretty sure I wouldve got laid a lot more by hot girls than the characters clint eastwood plays in his movies would have ;-) he's not very dynamic or funny, both charaterstics that get girls wet.
 

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kingy said:
was replying to your question and giving advice, didnt realise i had to know you to reply


both these texts show you are showing waaaay too much interest ;-)

Lol what,Yeah, how?:whistle:

p.s. you learn way more about girls and how to talk to them by guess what Actually Hanging Out with Them - hows that for a radical idea lol

not by looking up threads.

p.s. im pretty sure I wouldve got laid a lot more by hot girls than the characters clint eastwood plays in his movies would have ;-) he's not very dynamic or funny, both charaterstics that get girls wet.
Lol! go to bed, where are these hot chicks now in that case?

Your so-called ''advice'' bored me bro. Sorry. Thanks for trying.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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HeyPachuco! said:
Its seriously a dilemma. No matter if you get the HB10's or not they're all majority AIRHEADS. WHY? and how can you combat this?

Its just not logical. Is there anyway to get straight to the point without phone calls, texting and other assorted nonsense. I'm really getting highly annoyed with communicatiing via phone/ internet and want more face to face contact, how can I do this quicker without seeming desperate..?

Straight to the point with what? If you want to ask them out because you are sexually interested in them, you can't spend one week or two texting back and forth. You have to do it almost right away. If you want to have sex with them right away, it's not going to happen unless they are extreme sluts which is usually not the case.


I just want to hump, without inconvenience.

You can easily do it, they are called prostitutes. Good one will cost you $200 a pop.


Quicker ways to get a date/ hangout please? I got the " I'LL LET YOU KNOW BABE.." when asked to hangout.

Problem: You are asking the girl to "hangout". What does "hangout" mean? Smoke weed underneath a tree or teach her how to salsa dancing? You have to be specific when you are asking a girl out. Girls are sticklers for detail, they love guys who who pay attention to the little things. They don't like anything rushed, fast or quick. Anything rushed or nervous from your end doesn't make them feel safe or secure, it makes them nervous too and doesn't turn them on.

How are you asking the girls out?

a) "Hey Claire, I'm free on Saturday, want to hangout?"
b) "Hi Claire, how are you? Wondering if you were free Saturday night at 6:00. I know this great salsa dancing studio we can go to. I would love it if you could join me."


Which way makes her feel important, which way makes it seem like you've been thinking about her alot and want to be with her? Doesn't even matter if its true, you have to go fake it and act like it is. You have to make her feel like she's the MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN THE WORLD.
Again, you have to make the girl you are interested in FEEL special, important, sexy. You can't make her feel like a prostitute despite the fact you want to get off with her in 3 hours or less. Some girls will give in, but most girls can sense this and won't respond accordingly to you.
 

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Great, another 21 year old virgin who won't take advice. You hang out with female friends in social settings-make them laugh and have fun. OTHER women will notice you[trust me]. When you see one checking you out too often,figure out a way to meet her. If you KNOW you can see her again, you can wait until later. You have to "pretend" it's about relationships-even a slut won't admit she's a slut-give her the cover story she wants to have. Then she can say to herself "we tried,but it didn't work out" instead of "it was just meaningless sex" SHE CAN'T RATIONALIZE HER BEHAVIOR THEN

At 50, I'm probably the oldest guy who will respond to your post,so listen to the old bull "if you aren't getting any, you might as well be a steer or a queer"
 

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Nutz said:
I fully endorse this post. Been there a bazillion times myself. Think of it another way, which is what I tell guys who are dealing wtih flakes since this is essentially the same thing... If a girl met her favorite celeb or musician or whatever in line at Starbucks and was invited to hang out with them a certain night, you know damn well she'd be there come hell or high water studying be damned. IMO if she's not that excited as I describe to hang out with you where she'll shirk work, school, etc., then you have work to do in terms of building interest & attraction on her part.
Money

I have been flaked on before - the bottom line is 99% of the time it is because her interest in you was not high enough

There are rare exceptions - if her excuse really is legit, then she will automatically say yes to you when you tell her to reschedule. If she hesitates or make another excuse, it's over.

Man up and move on
 

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Great, another 21 year old virgin who won't take advice. You hang out with female friends in social settings-make them laugh and have fun. OTHER women will notice you[trust me]. When you see one checking you out too often,figure out a way to meet her. If you KNOW you can see her again, you can wait until later. You have to "pretend" it's about relationships-even a slut won't admit she's a slut-give her the cover story she wants to have. Then she can say to herself "we tried,but it didn't work out" instead of "it was just meaningless sex" SHE CAN'T RATIONALIZE HER BEHAVIOR THEN

At 50, I'm probably the oldest guy who will respond to your post,so listen to the old bull "if you aren't getting any, you might as well be a steer or a queer"

Lol yeah thanks oldtimer. 21.Year old virgin? what lol?

You must have mistaken. Anyway, I hate to break it to you Ladies, but she's fully on seeing me now.

She invited me to see her at he rhouse.

Lol how did it ever get to this with all the worry wart comments? LOL I ACTUALLY DO GET CHICKS. I couldn't believe it,when I saw a 24 year old virgin on here? I just come on here to get advice, because I believe there is some very helpful mods here that have ALREADY helped me, whether they know it or not.
 
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