Why am i so hesistant??? I've been sitting on the couch with my cell phone, trying to get myself to call the girl and ask her to the prom. I know for sure she will say yes..i think... for a while i was debating until the other day when we went on a field trip together, she came up to me and grabbed my arm and walked with me with her head on my shoulder, i mean come on that has to be something right? Yet i cant find the courage to call her WTH! When i finally did, her cell phone was off lol and now all my courage dissipated. I will try agian in 30 min...
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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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Why Am i So hesistant?
- Thread starter Oni
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
LOL, and there is NO other time you can ask her this question?
Go out, and DO something. Have fun, and when the opportunity presents itself, just fvcking do it!!!!
Go out, and DO something. Have fun, and when the opportunity presents itself, just fvcking do it!!!!
PeterNorthisawesome
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Why don't you ask her on a date and then ask her? I think asking someone face to face is much more personally and better. It def. looks like she likes you so JUST DO IT or someone else might come and take her. 
which is why i want to ask her RIGHT NOW! i didnt get a chance to ask her at school today because there are always people around. I've been putting this off for too long and now i need to take initiative. She told her friends she wants to go alone but i know if i ask her she will say yes for sure...i think :nervous: WHen should i call again?PeterNorthisawesome said:Why don't you ask her on a date and then ask her? I think asking someone face to face is much more personally and better. It def. looks like she likes you so JUST DO IT or someone else might come and take her.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
Um, her cell phone is off...
Go out and have fun, if you keep waiting, she may never turn it on...
OR
Try to call her 500 times, and every time her phone is dead, then call it a waste of a night
The second option sounds like a GREAT plan to me!
Go out and have fun, if you keep waiting, she may never turn it on...
OR
Try to call her 500 times, and every time her phone is dead, then call it a waste of a night
The second option sounds like a GREAT plan to me!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Oh well, i guess today is not possible. Unless i call again late tonight. Should i do that? If not, any suggestionsfor what i can do tomorrow? Right now im thinking about asking her to see if she wants to grab soem drinks with me and ask her when i meet her there.
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
...seriously JUST DO IT, send a txt message that your coming over and once it's late around 11 go OVER to her house throw a rock or something climb up and meet her at the window. I did that and guess what? she was so happy she ended up being a LTR. Stop making excuses make urself do it think that you'll lose your left testicle if don't do it today.
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She will say "Yes" no question. Her friends says she wants to go alone is just BS. She says that so if she doesn't get asked by anyone, she won't look like no one wants to go with her. It makes her look like she just choose to go without a date, not that no one asked her...follow?
Well, this was on the phone. I was asking her to seee if she wants to go to do something today and she said she's going to shop for prom. S oi thoguht i'd use this opportunity to ask while im at it. The answer was "maybe". She said she ahs someone in mind. Oh well, you think i'm gonna be all depressed and stuff? NO
I HAVE NEVER FELT THIS GOOD IN MY LIFE BEFORE.
It feels so great to finally get the weight off my chest. AFC no more, i have regained my DJ'ness
I HAVE NEVER FELT THIS GOOD IN MY LIFE BEFORE.
It feels so great to finally get the weight off my chest. AFC no more, i have regained my DJ'ness
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dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
alright calm down macho macho man.Oni said:
well, first off you should have scheduled a date for the future (eg call on a saturday and get a saturday night date? get real. call on a saturday and get a wednesday night date is more like it)
second, you shouldve held off and asked in real life
third, when she said maybe and that she had someone else on her mind, you shouldve told her "in that case forget it. i've got other girls to call"
but hey at least you got your testosterone pumping and shiit. lets go workout play some football fucck some girls and build a house. yee haw!:rockon:
yee haw
i guess you are right about asking in real life thing, but i doubt it would make a difference in this case. it's just i've been holding it inside me for so long i have to get rid of it.
but really though, i feel so pumped up and stuff.
i guess you are right about asking in real life thing, but i doubt it would make a difference in this case. it's just i've been holding it inside me for so long i have to get rid of it.
but really though, i feel so pumped up and stuff.