ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
No this is not a troll.
Yes there is a right answer
and it isn't hard to guess either.
Yes there is a right answer
and it isn't hard to guess either.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why am I so awesome?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
logicallefty
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Dunno, enlighten us..
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
No other guesses? I don't wanna have to reveal it after one response.
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Is it because you're half as awesome as me?
VikingKing
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Because your you?
Really, that's a matter of perspective.
Really, that's a matter of perspective.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Because you're the prize, and you're assuming value
VladPatton
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Next. Spin plates!
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I'm very sure you came back from an amazing encounter with a chick and feeling on top of the world. We're here rooting for you, though it isn't necessary.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
This. This is the right answer. I don't even need a reason to be awesome/great/amazing/whatever. I just am simply because I'm me. I'm awesome just cuz.noobolgy said:
And this right here, this is the way everyone should feel. The mentality we all should have. Confidence, happiness, success, luck, etc. --- all of those string off of how you feel. If someone else just so happens to be the greatest right along side of you, then you make yourself the double greatest. And be happy for your friend who is also the greatest too or you will spend time trying to subconsciously bring him/her down, which restricts your awesomeness abilities and your greatness.( . )( . ) said:
And this is partially why I am the way I am. The way I look at it, it's like this:Mike32ct said:
Do you like being happy? Then be happy. You don't need a reason for it. Just be it. Do you like being awesome? Then be awesome. Who cares what others think of you. They're just jealous of your awesomeness. People will try and bring you down on your way to becoming the greatest. Because they don't know how to or will not even simply try to become the greatest. I am the greatest (like Muhammad Ali always said). Not the best. But, I am the greatest because I am the best that I can be. That is the way to be the greatest. Not to just be good, or great at what you do (whatever it really is that you do), I mean you can even suck at whatever it is really. But if it is the best you can do/be, then you are the greatest.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Anyway, why start this thread in the first place you might ask since you all already know this?
Well, I've been feeling extra awesome lately and thought that maybe I could give some of it to you guys since you're all too awesome to not give more awesomeness too (if that makes any sense haha)
Well, I've been feeling extra awesome lately and thought that maybe I could give some of it to you guys
since you're all too awesome to not give more awesomeness too (if that makes any sense haha)Sadly no, but I wish I was......Espi said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
sylvester the cat
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This thread reminds me of a bi-polar flat mate I once had. When he was up the whole world had to know about it and when he was down the whole world was down with him.
It is not for nothing that wise people advocate the middle path.
It is not for nothing that wise people advocate the middle path.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
But then tell me, oh wise one, what must I do when I am always up? And am constantly on the rise as well. What then? Do I simply not advise others as to how to feel the same way I do?sylvester the cat said:
I feel that it is my duty that I should. Not tell everyone about how I feel, but tell them why I feel the way I do, so that they too can become like me.
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A different flat-mate told me the secret to his 'success' (he was a part-time chef with a drinking problem). He said he thought of himself as Jose Mourinho did aka The Special One. I asked him what happened when he happened upon another person who also thought of himself as The Special One? He didn't give me an answer.ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
That flat was not big enough for two Special Ones. He moved out first.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Delusions of grandeur. :crazy:sylvester the cat said:
I'm not exactly a druggy and I don't drink either
so that's the difference between us. I don't rely on alcohol to make me happy. I'm just happy just cuz 
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
once you really accept yourself, then you will accept others for just who they are, even if they seem to you like they need what you have ie happiness. Example always trumps forcing advice, as people tend to reject it.
We dont try and change people. We acknowledge our similarities and rejoice in our differences and accept where each of us is at. People create their own happiness. Even When we tell them how to get there. There are a billion people in front of you and behind you on the happiness scale.
I'm really happy that you are happy.
We dont try and change people. We acknowledge our similarities and rejoice in our differences and accept where each of us is at. People create their own happiness. Even When we tell them how to get there. There are a billion people in front of you and behind you on the happiness scale.
I'm really happy that you are happy.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
That may be true but who cares what they think anyway. Like my brother always says "They're just jealous" :rock:zinc4 said:
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
No on the contrary I'm still a virgin. Quite a shock that is isn't it hahaha
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.