why am i like this??

[mrsoy]

i havent been able to figure out why im like this so maybe you guys can help...

well before i met my gf she smoked pot once or twice a week,but i expressed how much i disliked it so she stopped but she recently started again.

i really dont know why i dislike it so much and why i dont like her doing it. i kinda feel like an ass-hole by holding her back but at the same time i know i really dont like it. does anyone understand what im sayin? can anyone help??

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

I think it's a good sign that she was willing to stop because you disliked it, but you have no right to TELL her to stop... so I'd just try to deal with it or break up with her if it bothers you that much. If you really disagree with it, then don't compromise yourself for her, obviously she's not going to compromise HERself for you. BUT, my personal opinion is WHATS THE BIG DEAL if she smokes a little!? Everything is ok in moderation in my book, so as long as it isn't having a negative effect on her... my advice is to get over it. You don't have to participate (Do you feel the same way about your friends smoking & judge them for it? Or is it just something you don't do, so you don't want her to?)

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Originally posted by GigaloDJ
Way to elaborate on my post

 

[SamePendo]

Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
I think it's a good sign that she was willing to stop because you disliked it, but you have no right to TELL her to stop... so I'd just try to deal with it or break up with her if it bothers you that much. If you really disagree with it, then don't compromise yourself for her, obviously she's not going to compromise HERself for you. BUT, my personal opinion is WHATS THE BIG DEAL if she smokes a little!? Everything is ok in moderation in my book, so as long as it isn't having a negative effect on her... my advice is to get over it. You don't have to participate (Do you feel the same way about your friends smoking & judge them for it? Or is it just something you don't do, so you don't want her to?)

Yada yada yada.
Shut up *****!
Its good you know you are a attention *****, but you must know you are also a ***** ***** ***** mother****ing ***** **** ***** you piece of ****!





her advice was great.

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Originally posted by SamePendo
Its good you know you are a attention *****, but you must know you are also a ***** ***** ***** mother****ing ***** **** ***** you piece of ****!

Yeah a attention ***** you think is SEXY!!! I'm gonna hold that over your head for ever Same ol' pendo! You attention-*****-feeder!!!!!!!!!!! The DJs are gonna revoke your membership

 

[SamePendo]

I wanna **** you bad girl! In fact, im having a michaeljackson orgasm:

"Aoww! Heeheeeee!"

 

[blienk]

Just a question: have you ever tried smoking? I was all against it too until I realized its not as evil as are 5th grade teachers told us - in fact, it's less dangerous than alcohol or nicotine.

 

[mrsoy]

yeah ive tried it a few times,havent gotten high though

i try to stay away from it for football and weight training,but idk, definitely cant be healthy.

 

[InsidiousNstinct]

First of all if the guy doesn't like it then he doesn't like it (talking about the chick smoking)

Second Im glad you stand for your beliefs dude.

Oh don't worry your not gettin off that easy.

Thrid...theres a difference between standing up for what ya believe in and trying to push your beliefs on to someone else.

Fourth....If you don't like it then why did u hook up with her in the first place?

 

[HollowHorizon]

Originally posted by GigaloDJ
Yes....you just don't want her to do it.

Bad news for you buddy, she's not going to quit for you.
Beware: Keep holding her back and she will dump you.

Very good advice i was gonna say the same thing,..

Mrsoy Mabe u should try it ounce and find out how much u would like it instead of taking away from her, when u ask her to stop she will only feel an invasion of her freedome...Back off!!!!

 

[wh01987]

Maybe she will be more willing to have sex when shes high.. joking I feel the same way if my gf does it. I dont know why becuase I have friends that are stoners but it just bugs me if my GF does it. But if they are hot enough, oh well...

 

[GlutusMaximus86]

My Best friend was able to get a girl to stop drinking because she wanted to go out with him so badly. He just told her that if they were going to be a couple she'd have to stop drinking. So my advice is, if it really bothers you, just tell her that she is going to have to quit smoking pot if you two are going to be a couple.