im 40 years old and I live in Texas. My looks are a 7. My cold approach is usually going up to a girl and talking about whatever is going around us or asking if they know of any cool bars around the city to go to. For example ill ask them if they are from the city then if they are then ill ask for cool places go to then ill ask if they are single or if they have facebook or for there phone number. Most of the women I ask out are usually 19 to 31. What am i doing wrong?