"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why all the hate from vegans?

speed dawg

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I've been doing some fitness youtubing lately and I've noticed that the vegans (Vegan Gains, Light Twins in particular) have their stingers out for guys like Mike Chang. I mean, like true HATE. I don't get it, it's like their entire agenda is by hating on other guys, then claiming that others are haters when they get called out for being little pussball haters themselves.

Seems to me this vegan fad is in the same vein as most liberal crap in general, laced with arrogance and elitism. People just need another way to feel better and smarter than others.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I hate vegans. I believe their thought process is completely irrational & illogical. Also they all seem to be attention *****s and as you so illustrated; Haters.
 

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I was a vegetarian for seven years, a "vegan" for a few of those. I put the word vegan in quotes, because there is really no such thing. In modern society, it is impossible to get by without using products that contain animal parts. Glue is one good example - the glues that hold together your shoes, or your car's interior are made from hoofs. So if you want to call yourself a vegan, you had better not be wearing shoes or riding in vehicles.
 

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regarding Vegan Gains... that dude just uses drama to attract viewers since his only source of income is youtube ad revenue...

In general vegans are grumpy and unpleasant to be around. Maybe they feel some sort of elitism... maybe they are grumpy because of the restrictive nature of vegan diets...maybe a combination of both...

when I tried to go vegetarian for about a month my sex drive dropped significantly and I found I was alway jittery, grouchy or irritable...
 

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I think vegans get hateful because they can't stand to see un necessary cruelty to animals. Eat your meat if you must, but don't have animals cramped in warehouses for their lives in substandard conditions, living a life of torture similar/if not worse than the Nazi concentration camps. Go get your meat from a farm where the animals have a some standard of living. :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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regarding Vegan Gains... that dude just uses drama to attract viewers since his only source of income is youtube ad revenue...

In general vegans are grumpy and unpleasant to be around. Maybe they feel some sort of elitism... maybe they are grumpy because of the restrictive nature of vegan diets...maybe a combination of both...

when I tried to go vegetarian for about a month my sex drive dropped significantly and I found I was alway jittery, grouchy or irritable...
He also got a vasectomy, so I guess it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Haha he straight bred himself out of the gene pool. What a loser.
 

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People just need another way to feel better and smarter than others.
This.

I cant stand most vegans for this reason. Self-righteous pricks. Like if you don't want to eat animal products, fine. But save the rhetoric, nobody cares about your crusade. Fact of the matter is most of us are accomplices in killing whether we like it or not, we just aren't getting our hands dirty. Even vegans.

IMO, if you eat or use animal products and aren't willing to at least be a part of that process, you are a coward.
 

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I think vegans get hateful because they can't stand to see un necessary cruelty to animals.
But it's necessarily an elitist mindset. If EVERYBODY on earth stopped eating meat, or only ate "free range" animal meat there'd only be enough space for about 1/100 of the population.

So only a few of the "chosen ones" can attain veganhood. Not unlike Jehova's Witnesses.
 

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Most vegans and vegetarians on the planet don't know what those words mean. They are just too poor to afford meat.

The only sound macro-level argument in favor of meat-eating relates to land that is not suitable for agriculture. Sheep and goats, especially, can graze on land where no food crops will grow, thus making food where there would be none otherwise. Beyond that, meat takes a lot more resources to produce less food. If not for the massive agricultural subsidies in the US, we'd actually know the real cost of things.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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