"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Whose more Morally right in this scenario?

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I need a revisited and second opinion from some of the newer members and folks who hasn’t seen this post.

‘Okay here’s the situation, Freddy stole John’s live in partner Roxanne from him while they were freshly separated. John and Freddy has been best friends for years, then John is also a drug addict and has been involved in plenty of petty crimes. He also has harassed and both gone into both of Freddy and Roxanne’s houses intoxicated and he has done things like slash Freddy’s tires, go into his neighborhood and all that stuff and provoked him into a fight. I love Freddy as a friend but I can’t help but think he was in the wrong when he should have simply minded his own business and not betray John. John after this went to rehab and been to jail several times. Okay who is on the right and why? In your personal opinion?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have a casual friendly relationship with Freddy…we hang out at the pub, conversate and nothing more. He’s always talking about John though and can’t get this scenario off his head.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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