"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Whose been to "the Buzz" in Scottsdale?

WillieSacks

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Man I was overwhelmed by the competition over there. I thought I could dance. Man I ain't $Hit compared to some of the folks there. I gotta work on my dancefloor game a little more. Who else from Arizona has been there???
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What in sam-hill are you talking about? And what does it have to do with DJ'ing?
 

Paid Laid & Made

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I had friends who been there. They all said its crowded as hell and picking up chicks is uber impossible with all the competition.
 

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Originally posted by Paid, Laid & Made
I had friends who been there. They all said its crowded as hell and picking up chicks is uber impossible with all the competition.
I've been there 3 times since I've been out here and last night was the first time I went there during the after hours (1-4). It was ridiculously packed b/c of all the 18 year olds and the fact that it was the only after hours club in scottsdale. It's like a damn fire hazard in there. I find that I have more success when I just get wasted before going there like I did the second time I went (unfortunately I lost my cell phone that night, which I found a few days later) and get there around 11 pm when the upstairs (21 and over) bar is open.

I'm probably going next Saturday for my boys birthday but I'm gonna be Drunk as hell so I won't give a fukk about being rejected.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i dont like to go to clubs that are overcrowded....u have no room to lay some good game down. i rather go to less crowded or clubs with room to lay some game down.
 
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