YawataNoKami
Master Don Juan
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bullsh!t.These are genuine excerpts from the forms.
Yes it does. A fake list using racist jokes and stereotypical speech from Detroit a mostly black city is racial at it's very core.Danger said:It has nothing to do with race.
The list is posted in the theblacksphere.netFairShake said:Yes it does. A fake list using racist jokes and stereotypical speech from Detroit a mostly black city is racial at it's very core.
Leave this sh!t alone. Take some personal responsibility for yourselves.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
u blind? read the damn site.. its more race bullsh@t posted by these race trolls n here. damn site is loaded with politics, religion n race with sum black dude hatin on blacks.Danger said:Why is this thread off limits? It has nothing to do with politics, religion or race.
this is a bullsh@t site u posted to race bait n here. accordin to the mods new rules this post should b deleted n u should be banned.YawataNoKami said:The list is posted in the theblacksphere.net
ThanksJaylan said:Amokas thread links to a silly comedy site...your thread links to a political site with a guy who frequently comments on race. You guys need to grow up and give it a rest already. Its already way passed pathetic now. Enjoy your troll thread.
YawataNoKami said:backbeat ,FairShake, Jaylan;what about him?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=227510
His thread is comedy , not mine..............right?
Maybe he does not read the new sticky thread in the section?
Ohh the hypocrisy............
so wut if he is black? there r racist blacks who hate blacks. the site is anti black talkin bout race n demanin towards blacks with wut they sayin. u dont read sh@t but u make up bullsh@t that u dont no bout.Danger said:Holy hell seriously? The author of Yawata's linked site is BLACK! And you guys are crying racism?!?!?
Danger said:As far as threads, there is a huge hypocrisy going on from my perspective. Just a gander at it so far here.
- There were flame threads and flame wars, and a lot of them.
- Then, bannings took place (targeting mainly one group) and while there were claims that warnings were sent, none were sent at all. <Red flag #1>
- One side was heavily banned, and Jaylan (part of the opposing group) had escaped the banning despite his starting many flame threads on page 1 of Anything Else and latest 15 started were flame threads. <Red Flag #2>
- All becomes quiet, the temp bans were removed and people were following the rules.
- Suddenly, Amoka starts a new race flame thread. To date he is still not banned for breaking the rules. <Red flag #3>
Now, a "new" warning comes out, but still no bans have happened to amoka (let alone that jaylan escaped the bans despite being a massive offender). It was CRYSTAL CLEAR that these would no longer be tolerated, yet amoka seems immune to these rules. Why is this? Why is only one group targeted?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dude, you created a thread with the exact information that got closed and deleted less than 24 hours ago for a reason. In fact this is the THIRD TIME you are posting the same thing. The previous TWO were DELETED. Here you are again complaining about the same thing. You don't learn, I see. Hopefully this gets the mods attention to close and/or delete this thread as well.Danger said:As far as threads, there is a huge hypocrisy going on from my perspective. Just a gander at it so far here.
- There were flame threads and flame wars, and a lot of them.
- Then, bannings took place (targeting mainly one group) and while there were claims that warnings were sent, none were sent at all. <Red flag #1>
- One side was heavily banned, and Jaylan (part of the opposing group) had escaped the banning despite his starting many flame threads on page 1 of Anything Else and latest 15 started were flame threads. <Red Flag #2>
- All becomes quiet, the temp bans were removed and people were following the rules.
- Suddenly, Amoka starts a new race flame thread. To date he is still not banned for breaking the rules. <Red flag #3>
Now, a "new" warning comes out, but still no bans have happened to amoka (let alone that jaylan escaped the bans despite being a massive offender). It was CRYSTAL CLEAR that these would no longer be tolerated, yet amoka seems immune to these rules. Why is this? Why is only one group targeted?