"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who's in charge @ home? Men Or Women?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The hor matrix is alive...and males are doing nothing about it. Guys really need to grow up and be men. Otherwise they'll just wind up unhappy in the end -- and quite possibly divorced because their "wives" have lost all respect for them.

Wives were more demanding—asking for changes in the relationship or in their partner—and were more likely to get their way than the husbands.
Wow, this is really sad.


"Women are responsible for overseeing the relationship, making sure the relationship runs, that everything gets done, and that everybody's happy," Murphy said.
bullsh1t


Wife power could signal a harmonious couple. "There's been research that suggests that's a marker of a healthy marriage—that men accept influence from their wives," Murphy said.
Men *should* accept influence from their wives. But ultimately the decision is theirs. And if they're constantly apathetic toward whose preferences get acknowledged, it probably means they have no preferences of their own -- and no soul either.
 
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