"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Who's in charge @ home? Men Or Women?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The hor matrix is alive...and males are doing nothing about it. Guys really need to grow up and be men. Otherwise they'll just wind up unhappy in the end -- and quite possibly divorced because their "wives" have lost all respect for them.

Wives were more demanding—asking for changes in the relationship or in their partner—and were more likely to get their way than the husbands.
Wow, this is really sad.


"Women are responsible for overseeing the relationship, making sure the relationship runs, that everything gets done, and that everybody's happy," Murphy said.
bullsh1t


Wife power could signal a harmonious couple. "There's been research that suggests that's a marker of a healthy marriage—that men accept influence from their wives," Murphy said.
Men *should* accept influence from their wives. But ultimately the decision is theirs. And if they're constantly apathetic toward whose preferences get acknowledged, it probably means they have no preferences of their own -- and no soul either.
 
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