"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Who's hot in R&B today?

Demon

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I really don't pay much attention to R&B, but my last few encounters definitely needed get-in-the-mood music. Apparently, ethnic music is "weird".

Who's hot in R&B today? Which tracks are perfect for invoking that sexual feeling?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oakraiderz2

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John Legend
 

Le Parisien

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Usher! Definitely Usher!
He's not like one of those starlets or wannabes who come and go.

Plus he's my inspiration for dancing and presence on stage.:whistle:
My own style is kinda in the same spirit: definitely not pure breakdancing, but clearly more technical/acrobatic than just choreographed "hiphop dance". Check out the music videos "U Remind Me" and "Caught Up" to see what I mean. Of course, I'm far from being as good as Usher...:D

Mariah Carey is pretty good, but too bad her good looks have faded. Now when she plays the "femme fatale" or beauty queen in her music videos, I just cringe...:eek: She's still a good singer though.
 

Azidoro

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Jay-Z' chick is definitely hot. Goddamn!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Centaurion

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I'm starting to like that 'Smack it' song or whatever it's called. It's the one with Eminem and that black guy.
 

Cruise

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well, unfortunately due to his upstanding reputation as a moral citizen, R. Kelly DOES have a undeniably 'mood' gittin catalogue, although, of course, you may want to proceed with caution.

jodeci was always freaky

but... currently... it's a toss up for ne-yo and usher. chicks get wetter every song with these cats... trust ; )
 
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