"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Who's from Montreal here???

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Yeah,

Finnally!!!

After being kidnapped for 10 years, I'm finnally comeing back tomorow (monday).

I'm done with CEGEP so I'll have nothing to do but hunting for jobs and appartement.

I'm looking foward to meting mtl girls :D

so who's from mtl here?

Might give you guys a ring, I haven't been there in too long ... I don't even know the hot spots!!!

GHOST


PS: Just so this stays in the general discussion forum, do you think eye contact is overrated?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Dee-Zy
PS: Just so this stays in the general discussion forum, do you think eye contact is overrated?
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Lol, sorry man, not going to work. Moved to Wingman Forum.
 
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booo!!!!


Nobody checks this forum anyways (nobody from canada anyways)
 
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I am from Montreal... if u wanted this to stay in the general forum u should have posted something like the challenge of picking up french speaking chicks vs. english speaking chicks in montreal or something... or differences between the eye contact of chicks in montreal...u know to make it look like a serious pimp topic and junk...all the montrealers would check it and u would find out who's from montreal
 
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Originally posted by Dee-Zy
booo!!!!


Nobody checks this forum anyways (nobody from canada anyways)
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Actually, a lot of people from Canada check this forum. They don't reply a lot though. This could be a diferent situation though.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yeah there are actually a bunch of people from montreal on here, but somehow in the past few months i havent seen too many of them posting. actually if u dig deeper in the wingman forum, there are a couple of montreal threads, some went up for a few pages, but then they died off...
 
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Originally posted by showtime17
yeah there are actually a bunch of people from montreal on here, but somehow in the past few months i havent seen too many of them posting.
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That's because you don't sit around inside during a Montreal summer! I go there during the school year, love it, can't wait to get back there ASAP!!! Toronto is great but it just does not compare.
 
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drop your aim or MSN!
 
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15 years old and you're talking about b!tches???:rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I know this topic is ages-old but I just got back in the loop, and back to the game after a (too) long period of working on other areas of my life. Anyways, for those of you who don't know me I used to read and post here regularly, but I've basically stopped coming with any regularity since I started CEGEP.

Speaking of which, if any of you guys go to Ahuntsic (sp?) or Grasset, drop me a line at [email protected] ...Or contact me anyways if you're from other places (or even not in school) so we can sarge together sometime.

-Fred

PS: I've been out of the loop for a while so I'm rusty, and might not be up to all the terms you new guys use :p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Meet Montreal Wings, join the Montreal Lair, email:

[email protected] to join and say Papa sent you.
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Ya I thought of doing that, Ock already gave me his e-mail but you AFSer are a lil ... how can I say it? weird as fu/ck.
 
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