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Who's been with a woman that gets 'Tourettes Syndrom' after a few drinks?

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If anyone doesn't know what Tourettes Syndrome is, please google it.

It would take my last GF three glasses of wine, and then she'd be off.
Every second world..... Fvck, sh1t, pr!ck etc etc.

This actually happened on our first date! What a huge RED FLAG that the former chump I was, missed - or chose to ignore if I am honest about it.
When I put it on her the next morning that she lost control of her verbals the night before, she apologised profusely and said she never means it - its just the booze talking. Like an idiot - I accepted that.

She was Irish. Never ever date a Irish woman - they are just about all BPD if my exGF is anything to go by, and from what I have garnered from other guys that have gone out with Irish girls.
 
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She has a disease man. You can't hold that against her. If you are not comfortable with that you should let her go. There is someone for her as well as you. That is a very serious and psychologically crippling disease. She can't control it. Good luck.. And some Irish women are fuvking hot!!!
 

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LOL. Might not be true Tourette's, that would probably be evident in everyday behaviour, perhaps the drinks simply lowered inhibitions / facade and revealed her true (low class or boozer) nature.
 

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trent81 said:
She has a disease man. You can't hold that against her. If you are not comfortable with that you should let her go. There is someone for her as well as you. That is a very serious and psychologically crippling disease. She can't control it. Good luck.. And some Irish women are fuvking hot!!!
No mate. Work it out. She doesn't literally have the disease. Only after she gets on the drink.
 

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My gf is Irish, and i do occasionally tell her that her swearing is really bad. Only last week walking to a pub with my gf and her friend, they were talking about tourette's and i turned to my gf and said:
"You've got tourette's haven't you?"
gf: "Oh **** off!"
Me: "See. Thanks for proving my point lol."

Yeah Zunder i hear the same "Fvck, sh1t, pr!ck etc etc." I think i'm gonna challenge her to not swear in my presence for a day, and come up with some reward for myself when she fails.

Though my gf doesn't need wine to start swearing, it's like in most of her sentences all the time. I should get her a dictionary for her birthday with a note saying "Welcome to the English language" or something.

I like the Irish accent, but it's spoiled by bad language on a epic scale.
 

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trent81 said:
She has a disease man. You can't hold that against her. If you are not comfortable with that you should let her go. There is someone for her as well as you. That is a very serious and psychologically crippling disease. She can't control it. Good luck.. And some Irish women are fuvking hot!!!

I believe something was lost in translation in your evaluation of the post. He is not saying she actually has tourrettes syndrome, which is characterized by verbal ticks as well as excessive swearing etc...but that she has similar tendencies when she drinks and loses her lady manners and starts cussing like a sailor.

I honestly dont mind if a girl swears when its needed...but a woman who uses bad language constantly, wether shes drinking or not is a complete turn off...and usually the swearing goes along with a completely obnoxious drunken attitude...in my mind that type of behavior is unacceptable.
 

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If she has the disease, she's probably on meds for it...I'll bet $10. there is a bright sticker on the bottle saying DO NOT DRINK ALCOHOL WITH THIS MEDICATION!

Or...maybe she just has potty mouth.
 

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Damn, I was doing lot of coke when I wrote that last night. My bad, I see what you're saying. Next time slap her in the mouth when she talks like that. One time, I broke a cell phone over a girl's head when she cursed about my mom. She gave me a bj right after and said she would never mention my mom ever again. It was one of those thick nokia phones from the late 90's too.
 

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All you have to do is search for one of IQQI's drunken rants on SS or NLG to experience this first hand.
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trent81 said:
Damn, I was doing lot of coke when I wrote that last night. My bad, I see what you're saying. Next time slap her in the mouth when she talks like that. One time, I broke a cell phone over a girl's head when she cursed about my mom. She gave me a bj right after and said she would never mention my mom ever again. It was one of those thick nokia phones from the late 90's too.
Nothing gets women all hot and horny and in the mood like a little well placed violence.
 

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trent81 said:
Damn, I was doing lot of coke when I wrote that last night. My bad, I see what you're saying. Next time slap her in the mouth when she talks like that. One time, I broke a cell phone over a girl's head when she cursed about my mom. She gave me a bj right after and said she would never mention my mom ever again. It was one of those thick nokia phones from the late 90's too.
Ah, so you have something in common with Russel Crowe, with the phone throwing thing. Unlike you, I don't think he got, or wanted a BJ.
 
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