"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Whos a pretty boy then?

Hellboy

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Good post!

The first thing most budding DJs should work on is self image. You perform automatically to the boundaries that you set in your head. If you believe you can't, you won't. If you like yourself then others will like you too. If you truly believe you deserve that chick at the bar then you're half way in her knickers already.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
What can you do to change the way people think about you?

NOTHING! NOTHING AT ALL!
That contradicts the fact that you changed your attitude, started working out, dressing well, and going tanning. Fact of the matter is that people react differently to good looking/in-shape individuals and fat/disheveled individuals. I'd say you can do a lot to change the way people think about you.
 

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Good job bro. I am in the same boat but I havent transformed yet.

I need to beat my inner demons soon, otherwise life is quickly passing me by.

I already wasted my teen years, I dont want that to happen anymore.


What did you do exactly that changed you?

I already look good, and I am in good shape. (I was also fat, but I changed 3 years ago)


My mind is the only thing holding me back.
I feel like my trueself is imprisoned inside me and I need him to bust out, but he cant.
 
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