"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Whoah, major disrespect

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So I took a trip to visit this girl I've been seeing who got a summer job far from where I live.

Earlier today we were making plans for tonight and She said 'let's go dancing after dinner' (which she knows i dont like) I say I'd rather go for a walk in the park'. She says 'fine, we can go for a walk before dinner then I'll go without you'.

Now even if we were just friends its rude to abandon someone on a Friday night in a town where they don't know anybody, but given we're supposed to be in a relationship it's mind-boggling. I told her this and she stalked off accusing me of overreacting. Next steps?.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm thinking she might have been kidding, or trying to convince you in a super lame way. If she actually tries to go out without you on a night you went out of town to visit her like that. I would just really stop trying to please her at all, for sure take a couple steps back in the relationship.
 
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Yeah. Sounded like an angry girl making an idle threat.

If she actually followed through, then you should be mad. Right now, she's just acting out. Get her drunk and sweet talk her. You should be fine.
 
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Sometimes you gotta let stuff slide. The best thing to do is show no reaction cause some girls get a power trip out of getting reactions out of a guy.
 
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