Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Most guys on here are here to get advice on how to HAVE SEX with women...Why the fvck does it matter, really? Having sex doesn't mean you're any better at the whole process: the mindsets, the attitudes, the kino, the jokes, the stories... Any idiot can get laid.
Yes... virgins don't KNOW what sex is like to even say such a thing as there are more things to life other than it... it makes no sense... That's like me never having watched a football game and saying basketball is the best sport ever, its just not intelligent... wow this whole thing is a headtripLet me ask you this. Is advice from a guy who lays HB6 and below because he is addicted to sex and doesn't even value a relationship more "valid" then a virgin who understands that there is more to life then just sex? You tell me whos head is in the right mindset?
How can you give advice to someone else trying to have sex, when you have not had it yourself ?? You're both blind, like someone else said, its the blind leading the blind...if you RTFM like you were supposed to, you can give someone sound advice regardless of if you are a virgin or not.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Coder has a point. I wouldn't really recommend taking financial advise from a homeless person unless you aim to be homeless.Cod3r said:How can you give advice to someone else trying to have sex, when you have not had it yourself ?? You're both blind, like someone else said, its the blind leading the blind...
And the 'fvckin manual' as you so eloquently put it is not 'advice' on getting laid. People here have read the manuals and still can't get their ****k within 10 feet of pvssy, how to fvck females comes from advice from people who have hmmm..
fvcked females perhaps ??
or self-experience...
Would you take advice on how to wire an electrical circuit from someone who RTFM or from someone who has done it before ?? HELLO... its simple...
or perhaps another metaphor ??
In REAL LIFE, would you take advice from some guy from sosuave.net who claims to have read the bible and know the secrets yet has never experienced success, or the guy who has never read the bible and fvcks HBcheerLeader9 every saturday ??
-Cod3r
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
blinkwatt said:Let me ask you this. Is advice from a guy who lays HB6 and below because he is addicted to sex and doesn't even value a relationship more "valid" then a virgin who understands that there is more to life then just sex??
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i dont mean to be mean to u, but if u knew how to seduce chicks, then my guess is you would have seduced a couple by now and not be a virgin. You cant tell me u KNOW HOW TO seduce a girl in theory unless uve actually done it for real. And guess what, if u DID do it for real, then u being such a good seducer would have resulted in u gettin some pvssyChrizZ said:I´m a virgin, but I know how to seduct chicks. The only problem is that where I live I can´t find any chicks that I´d consider hot.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.