"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Whoa...fat chicks are digging me?!?!

killerasp

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I heard the quote once..."even fat chicks need loving". And i can tell you...that is indeed very true.

I know 3 "large" girls. Large as in Queen Latifia size. Although these girls are 7-8 in "facial" looks, the rest of the them is BLAH. Im sure these girls would be banging if they lost the weight but i find myself "attracted" to their personailities more than appearence. In the last month....i had 3 "large" girls give me their numbers.

I dont hate people because of their size/race/ethnicity, i apply the same rules and apply the same game to everyone, by doing so ive become much more liked by the general crowd that i hang out with. But i seem to be attracting the large women. Even though i dated women that can be consider HB7-8 with thinner waist lines..their personalities bore me after the 2nd date and i dont find myself wanting to date them anymore.

It just something about out going fat chicks......
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Fat chicks" are still women, are they not? Fat guys need loving too:)

Fat girls come up to you because they know that you are the type of guy that disregards the 'weight' issue, moreso than most guys - your decisions of attraction are based on other factors as well!
 

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Originally posted by FreeStyleZ
***BARF***
thanks for the kinds words of wisdom. its people like you that make these forums what they are now.
 

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No, its people like you. You are trying to justify macking on fat chicks.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by FreeStyleZ
No, its people like you. You are trying to justify macking on fat chicks.
thank you for pointing that out. :rolleyes:
 

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Hey, I say go for a fat chick. I haven't been with one before, and now I'm a little curious. You can't go through life without trying everything at least once.

And hey, maybe it will great. What is pleasing to the eye and pleasing to the touch are often different. Don't listen to people like FreeStylz, who are probably completely inexperienced, saying immature things like BARF. People fail to realize that personality makes looks (Benicio Del Toro is fat, but so many women think he's sexy as hell). I personally think Queen Latifah is a beautiful woman.

So go for it, hey it might be nice to have something to hold on to, and it sure as hell beats an anorexic chick. Plus they can keep you warm at night; it's winter time you know. And if it's bad, then you know that you're not into them.
 
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