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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Whoa! C+F and neg hits make all the diff

FreeStyleZ

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Hey everyone.

I been doing some reading and still trying to work on my skills with the ladies ofcourse and my most recent problem was that I was worried that if I was c+f and busting on her that she'd just thnk im an ******* and then stop talking to me. DAMN was I wrong.

I went online just to practice the basics of it... since i wasnt having success online either.

The first girl which i finally got the balls to just go all out and be c+f with and use neg hits resopnded really well. At first when i msg'd her she was saying stuff like "Well what do you look like, i want to know if you are worth my time" and all kinds of other stuck up type sh*t. I remember when she said something about posting sexy pictures of her on her page and I told her "Naw, i dont kno about posting them on the page, but you definitely should send a few to me." And she said "and who are you?" You know.. just real stuckup sort of... but after busting on her and being C+F for a while EVERYTHING changed. She started being interested in me and wanting to talk to me... msging me when i wouldnt respond for a few mins and all that. By the end of the night I had her taking pictures of anything on her body I wanted and sending them on over. She practically was begging me to set up a date in real life for the next day.. when i asked her why it would be worth my while she started teling me about how much of a freak she is and things she's good at. Basically letting me know she'd give me head if i met up with her. The problem with that though is she's too young, she's 15, im 18. But the important thing here is the dramatic change.... i basically owned her by the end of the night. Id post the convo here but it would be kinda long..

She still is trying to convince me to meet up with her... she'd say something like "tell me now if we're still meeting on monday so i know whether or not to make other plans." I would say "well go ahead and make other plans.. i wouldnt want to ruin your day off from school." And she would respond saying "but i want to spend the day with you". Now im just trying to figure out how to avoid her completely, seeing as though I used her as practice.

Now the next girl which I did this on had the SAME great response. This girl is sexy as hell and my age. When i first msg'd her though she didnt seem too interested and sort of stand offish... bcause i wasnt being C+F or interesting at all. Second time around i grabbed my balls and tried to do the same with her which I did with the other girl. The results? I had her talking about her ***** and it "rolling off my tongue". She wanted to talk to me right then and there on the phone. Heres the convo:

Her: hey
Me: hey wassup
Her: chillin
Me: same here.. just hangin out with a few of my boiz
Her: cool
Me: hey which day was it we was supposed to meet up?
Me: cuz tomorrow is a holiday, u wont be at work right
Her: yea but i have plans
Me: oh aiight
Me: what your plans consisting of
Her: im goin out wit my sister
Me: i see.
Me: well since you wont be seeing me tomorrow i'll let you make it up to me on tuesday
Me: if you promise to behave yourself with whatever dudes gonna be hitting on u
Her: lol always
Me: i seen your picture again today
Me: looked like u took the picture in your bathroom or something
Me: tried to hook up the creative background?
Her: yea my girl took it..i was gettin ready 2 go out
Me: you two were in the bathroom together?
Me: maybe she was helping you in more ways than one :p
Her: LOL NO!
Me: uh huh riiight
Me: lol
Her: i was gettin ready and was on the phone and she deceided she wanted to take a random picture
Me: i see.
Me: interesting place to hold a phone conversation though
Me: so you in pretty early tonight aint you?
Me: tongiht basically was a chill night for me.
Her: yea well we waitiing for my other girl
Me: oh i see... you wanted to come online to talk to me and you got your friends waiting on you
Me: go ahead and have fun boo.. i wont hold it against ya
Me (12:43:55 AM): ;-)
Her: u not..1s talkin to her man on the phone, ones watchin tv and im on here
Her: my other friend need to hurry up
Me: what you mean when u said "u not"
Her: i donno
Her: lol
Me: do you drink?
Her: sometimes..lol
Her: y
Me : you look all innocent in the pictures
Her: cuz i am..grrrrrrr
Me: i bet you can't hold your liquor though
Her: i hold my liquor boo..beleive that
Me: lol
Me: id have to see that in person to believe it
Her: maybe u will
Me: yeah, maybe.
Her: ..?
Me: hmm?
Me: u said maybe, and i was agreeing with you.
Me: das all
Her: o ok
Me: so what kinda guys u normally go for
Me: guys that are 6"4, clean cut, and use the online name Me?
Her: thats about rite
Her: exactly what i was gon say
Her: damn u 6 4?
Me: yeah, i thought the same
Me: yeah, why
Her: i like that
Her: : P
Me: im sure you do.
Me: you'd like a few other things about me too i believe
Her: like what?
Me: you'll have to find out for yourself.
Her: is that a invite?
Me: i havent decided yet.
Me: ;-)
Her: mmm
Me: you had some nice lips in the picture
Me (12:52:56 AM): lookd like u was gettin down on a bucket of extra crispy just a few minutes before taking it
Her: lol nahh i jus put on some lip gloss
Me: yeah.
Her: ; )
Me: how do you pronounce your name, is it like Alicia (keys) or Aley-see-ah
Her: neither!
Her: Ah-lee-sah
Me: oh aiight
Me: you know how to pronounce my name?
Her: no tell me
Me : that your way of asking what my name is because you forgot?
Me: not too slick boo lol
Her: lol.....no did u ever tell me?
Me: yes!
Me: i think...
Her: no...
Me: aiight, if not, its Freestylez
Me: well, you should have asked, right?
Her: ok u rite u did
Her: my b!
Me: uh huh
Me: your bad.
Me: you know how to pronounce it though i hope
Her: yea i think i can handle that much
Me: it rolls off the tougue nicely
Me: you'll enjoy screaming it
Me: err... i mean saying it
Me: my b!
Her: i bet..i got somethin else that can roll off off ur tounge
Me: oh yeah, whats that
Her: somethin fat and juicy..
Her: : P
Her: lol
Me: some of that leftover 'extra crispy' ?
Her: yea thats it
Me: uh huh
Me: tryin to seduce me n all :p
Me: but fat and juicy could be about 4 different things
Me: how about another clue
Her: mmm soft and sensual
Me: soft and sensual huh.... that doesnt narrow it down it down, id hope everything about you is soft and sensual
Her: everything is
Me: my point exactly
Her: ok 1 more clue
Me: damn, this aint a trivia game boo, u should just tell me
Me: can i buy a vowel?
Her: lol yea
Me: lol
Me: wheres my clue
Her: if u put somethin in it, it adapts to that and will work magic until its unbearable...
Me: well the last time something like that rolled off my toungue the girl about had a seizure
Me: all the shaking u know
Her: ya aiight
Me: u know what time you getting off work on tuesday/
Her: i go in at 5
Me: oh aiight
Me: well yeah.. jus hit me up that day and we can figure out what time is good for both of us.
Her: i wanna talk to u tonite
Me: thought you was leaving soon
Me: yeah you can call me tonight, i wont be able to talk long though
Her: ok
Her: can u give me the numba again
Me: tsk tsk...
Her: ?
Me: you lost it?
Me: XXX XXXX
Her: when should i call
Me: how about right now
Her: ok hold up
Me: hmm.....
Her: my giirl on the phone gimme a few mins
Me: aiight
Me: she using your cell phone?
Her: i dont have a cell
Me: oh... you told me last time you did..
Me: i remember u sayin something about how u always keep it turned off or something
Her: noo i told u mine was turned off
Her: rite
Me: o
Me: i guess
Me: guess i read it wrong
Her: i guess u did
Me: or maybe i guess you just typed it wrong
Me: how about that one
Her: no
Her: how much u weigh?
Me: lol damn this aint no job interview is it?
Her: yes it is!
Me: i weight, 500lbs, is that straight with u?
Me: lol
Me: i am proportional to my height... i dont know how much i weigh exactly
Her: o ok
Me: i hope she gonna be getting off the phone soon cuz i was about to step over my friends house for a second
Her: ill jus call tomoorow then
Me: aiight then, just hit me up tomorrow.... i know u wanted to talk to me tonight badly and everythin gbut jus try and hold off for one more day
Me: and it'll be worth your while...
Me: gonna go now though, peace
Her: ok i hope so
Me: naw, u should know so.
Me: because i do.
Me: say good bye to me so i can leave boo
Her: alrite boo buh bye
Me: naw... try again
Me: that good bye is ok for the first time we talk
Me : id like something more "soft and sensual" now though
Her: ok bye boo....xoxo
Me: aiight i guess kisses will be fine, talk to u tomorrow, bye
 

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MVPlaya

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Eeehh.. congrats with your newfound CF skills but I gotta say, concise and to the point is key, I don't let convo's go on for too long. And your convo sure looked waaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyy too ƒucking long. I didn't read it past the first couple lines, but a few lines are enough.
 

quest

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whats the go with trying to pick up on the internet?
surely these girls are desperate and dateless, or pick up guys on the net all the time?

maybe its diff overseas but in aus, i don't know many who go online to score.
 
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