"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who would you rate a 9 or 10?

Eternal_water

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We all know one guys 10 is another guys 5 and vice versa.

gspshields2's thread ( http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=195536 ) made me think it would be an interesting idea If we posted pictures of girls we think are 9s or 10s. Either celebrities or girls we know or anything.

I also suspect when people put pictures up, other guys give a lower rating than they actually mean as some sort of self boost.

But yeah put us some photo's of 9s and 10s.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't believe any woman is a 10. A 10 would be absolute perfection with no flaws whatsoever. For me a 9 would be Pamela Anderson, Carmen Electra, or Jenny McCarthy in their early to mid 20's prime.
 

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Celebs (since I wont post girls I know)

Mila Kunis, Scarlett Johansson, Stacy Keibler, Kim Kardashian (my absolute ideal body type but her personality is meh), Olivia Wilde, Zooey Deschanel, Hayden Panettiere

Some of those girls aren't as curvy as i'd like but they have faces to compensate. At least to me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Eternal_water

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Hmm thats interesting I just don't understand the kim kardashian thing myself I don't see her as attractive at all.

Mila Kunis I can agree with, especially after her little scene with Natalie Portman ;)

scarlet johanson definately, Olivia wilde not so much, zoey deschannel is okish and Hayden Panettiere well yeah I guess I'd put her as a 7.


I'd say Karen Gillan is gorgeous, Jenna louise coleman, Amanda Seyfried, Ellen Page is hot
 

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see how stupid you faggots are. you are rating these celebs because they are famous.

look at it again without those rose-colored glasses.


faggots, i tell you.. faggots everywhere.
 

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In that case shouldn't I rate Kardashian? (who I think is verging on ugly)

Fame doesn't really affect how physically attractive I think someone is or isn't.

Now If you don't have anything constructive to say, say nothing at all.
 

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You guys are rating celebrities. Anyone who says kim K or Hayden P is a 7 is fvcking stupid. They are 9s. No question about it. If these hot chicks are 7s, what the fvck do we have to look forward to?

The only people who can be rated are non-celebs. Everyone knows celebrity chicks are hot as fvck. They have value to boot. Quit playing yourself.

A 9 is someone who is irresistible. An 8 is someone you rarely see out at a club/bar. A 7 is someone you would be lucky to take home from a bar. A 6 is the norm.

/Truth

Edit:

I have reached my capacity for posts. I will respond in order of how stupid you sound:

Eternal water:

You're lacking in ingenuity because you think a beautiful woman is unattractive. The photo you uploaded is of a girl looking her best. She is a 6-7. KK is a 9.

Burroughs:

It's easy to take a picture of some chick, at the wrong time, without makeup. I can find all your exes and get bad pictures of them. People are paid to take horrible pictures of celebrities. In fact, it gets them more money.


I don't mean to start some sort of argument, but saying certain people are unattractive is just going against the grain to be different.
 

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So to re cap your post I am somewhat lacking in ingenuity because I don't personally find Kim Kardashian irresistible?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SoSuave666 said:
You guys are rating celebrities. Anyone who says kim K or Hayden P is a 7 is fvcking stupid. They are 9s. No question about it. If these hot chicks are 7s, what the fvck do we have to look forward to?

The only people who can be rated are non-celebs. Everyone knows celebrity chicks are hot as fvck. They have value to boot. Quit playing yourself.

A 9 is someone who is irresistible. An 8 is someone you rarely see out at a club/bar. A 7 is someone you would be lucky to take home from a bar. A 6 is the norm.

/Truth
You are clueless..

LOL

Kardass is a 5 no more.....

don't believe me

Do you want proof....

really....

ok I warned you...she's as hairy as a desert dweller, her electrolysis bill is $$ thousands.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-LT82P7Tes.../usAh5cul9_Y/s1600/no-make-kim-kardashian.jpg

she just looks like any ordinary indian or arab jumpoff...don't be fooled by hollywood so easily next time lol
 

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Ok, I will post pictures of my girlfriends soon for you to jack off to. But only if you say please.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Burroughs said:
You are clueless..

LOL

Kardass is a 5 no more.....

don't believe me

Do you want proof....

really....

ok I warned you...she's as hairy as a desert dweller, her electrolysis bill is $$ thousands.

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-LT82P7Tes.../usAh5cul9_Y/s1600/no-make-kim-kardashian.jpg

she just looks like any ordinary indian or arab jumpoff...don't be fooled by hollywood so easily next time lol
She is also a midget at around 5'1. That's really short, even for a girl. If you are under 5'5 as a girl, you can't be higher than a 6 in my books. I don't care how pretty the face is.
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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