"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who would you like to go "Sarging" with on SS?

Who Would you go sarging with?


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guywhoneedshelp

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Man I sarge with anyone who has the passion of doing it. I've sarged with Snowplow and damn he's good. Learned a lot from him last year.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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daygameguy

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Jon is best going solo i suppose. As for sarging with wings, Snow or DDP or Solo himself.. best of this forum at the moment.
 

Bible_Belt

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Who Would you go sarging with?

Lookyoung if I wanted to actually pick up girls.

Luke Skywalker might be more fun, though, I keep telling him I want to smack him every time he does something stupid and that would be a lot easier in person.
 
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