"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who would be your Don Juan movie lead actor?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would say the guy from Hung.

He is about my age, and finanical stature as well.


more realistic. A pirate just isn't really doable in this day and age.
 

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tj said:
I would say the guy from Hung.

He is about my age, and finanical stature as well.


more realistic. A pirate just isn't really doable in this day and age.
A pirate or warlord is more realistic than gay actors.

His name is Kadyrov. He is why I laugh when people say "European" on here as if it is a culture. He is European. Just not the part of Europe America tells you about...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fEwi8TpbLFM
http://cache2.asset-cache.net/xc/76...8F0A1AB9952681CAD68940932958074913120052E034A
http://paradoxoff.com/files/2009/12/ramzan-kadyrov-golden-gun.jpg

So. Basically the world's most expensive car collection belongs to a warlord from Southern Russia who collects cars, tigers, expensive gold guns, and hangs out with Mike Tyson. Uh, the real world is a million times stranger than what you see on tv in America. Oh yeah, in his spare time he also goes out and fights in wars with his own army.
 
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