"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who wins?

Forty0ztoFreedom

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Guy 1 - Typical guy who's never heard of "pick-up." Likes a girl, makes mistakes here and here, ie, telling her he likes her, giving her flowers. Not a NEEDY CREEPY guy, just a normal guy not worried about being AFC or keeping up attraction in her or being ALPHA, yet not following guidelines he knows nothing about.

Guy 2 - Community guy stressing about keeping the frame and LEADING, using canned negs here and there. WORRIED about coming across as AFC.

A girl has moderate interest in both and will choose 1. Who gets her? I'm thinking Guy 1 wins every time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kal0051

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probably guy 1 since guy 2 will come off as creepy
 
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