"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who wants to learn Speed Seduction ????

Vronski

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I'm thinking about writing a beginner's course in this stuff, which introduces basic concepts and provides examples and exercises. Its gonna be a crash course which will guide you step by step and will get you started in the world of SS. I am saying started, because it is the most difficult part in SS. You have to go from 0 to 100% as to mirroring, being comfortable, controlling your body language and thinking of what to say at the same time. I will try to smooth the process and introduce you gradually to this.

Do you want to learn it???

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pursuivant

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Originally posted by Vronski:
I'm thinking about writing a beginner's course in this stuff, which introduces basic concepts and provides examples and exercises.

Do you want to learn it???

FOR SURE I WANT/MUST/NEED TO LEARN IT. That is my weak point when talking to girls. I dont know how to change from friends conversation to the real stuff.

Remember to include as well the Giving off the Sexual Vibe (posted by SexPDX)

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XANEUS

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I'd be very interested in such a course.
 

Arctic_FoX

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I think it's what a lot of people here needs. I would be very interested.

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"Nuff said"
"Well, don't just stand there, DO IT!!"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Challenger

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Wow, that's a really great idea!
I am in of course!
Together with the dj boot camp I think this could be a powerful connection.

I am intersting in getting to know how SpeedSeduction works. Until yet I only have a few ideas about it but didn'T figure out how I can start with it.

I am just hoping that if it should be similar to the boot camp, you do the course in small steps because learning such a technic needs much time I suppose.

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Ricardo

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Go for it, I highly recommend you talk to SexDPX when it gets back from his break from the forums
 

Cesare Cardinali

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Comrade Vronski,

I am very interested and could use the beginner's course very badly.

Thanks.
Cesare
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nicholas Hill

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Ya, go for it. I'd imagine a great number of people could use something like that, myself included.
 

Tantric

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No thanks...

why would i want to learn how to seduce women?

LOL!

I've read and practiced most of the stuff from fastseduction.com, but think it's a bit outdated (i don't think the site been updated for a year or so)

so yeah, i think a Bootcamp type deal would be cool...narrow down and focus more of the basic concepts for beginners. I think it's a wild idea.
 

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It will be great. I will be looking foward to it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sir_Chancealot

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Guys,

Spend the $250, and order it.

I did!


Should be here today. Can't wait to get started and play with it. (The course material, that is!
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Nice to see so many minds ready to absorb the knowledge.

The Vronski's Speed Seduction Manuals (VSSM)will start being written soon enough.

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