"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jnice48146

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What's up, guys? Listen, I'm new on here and don't know what all the abbreviations and acronyms mean. If someone could please clarify I'd be really appreciative. AFC? LJBF? HB?

I'd also love to hear from anyone who has gad a similar experience as mine. I'm in an LTR with a girl that I got by applying the few things I picked up while lurking on here for a while, and from DD's newsletter. After she said, "I love you" I let my guard down and turned into a wussy nice guy. Needless to say, things changed for the worse QUICKLY! I'm now on the road to recovery, about a week and a half in. I've been using the C&F, and acting like I don't really care if I see her or not, ending our phone conversations, letting her call/ text me and it seems to be working. Any insight/ input? Thanks in advance.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Big Poppa

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Doing good so far from what I read bro.

AFC-Average Frustrated Chump: The typle nice guy who never gets anywhere.

LJBF-Let's Just Be Friends

HB-Hot Babe.

Go figure lol
 

Swashbuckler

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Just get her to give you a blumkin. She's yours if you can get her to do that. Plus, they're pretty relaxing.
 

jnice48146

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Nice swashbuckler! Thanks for the info guys.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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