"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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who to bring to PROM?

Mr. Fresh

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Hey guys, I need some opinions on who to ask to go with me to Senior Prom. I need to get a date by May11th and to buy the tix too. I was originally supposed to bring my gf who broke up with me in march so that messed up. And I was thinking about asking this girl who is a few lockers away from me and she is kinda quiet but idk i mite ask her, but then again it would seem weird caus I nvr realy talk to her and she's in none of my classes, she is a senior too. The only reason I want to ask her is cause I think she used to like me at the beginning of the yr, but she is kinda shy. If she says no, I can always ask this freshman who is one of my good friends from another school, but then again, evn tho she's hot, she is a frosh. So who wuld u ask to prom if u were in my shoes?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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aussiegoat55

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1. The shy senior, if not, then..
2. The frosh, if not,

Or, this could better even,

Stag, just butterfly around from single girl to single girl, or dance with your friends, regardless, if you enjoy the energy, date or no date, you'll have a great time.
 

comic_relief

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Mr. Fresh said:
Hey guys, I need some opinions on who to ask to go with me to Senior Prom. I need to get a date by May11th and to buy the tix too. I was originally supposed to bring my gf who broke up with me in march so that messed up. And I was thinking about asking this girl who is a few lockers away from me and she is kinda quiet but idk i mite ask her, but then again it would seem weird caus I nvr realy talk to her and she's in none of my classes, she is a senior too. The only reason I want to ask her is cause I think she used to like me at the beginning of the yr, but she is kinda shy. If she says no, I can always ask this freshman who is one of my good friends from another school, but then again, evn tho she's hot, she is a frosh. So who wuld u ask to prom if u were in my shoes?
I would ask a blowup doll, but that is just me.

or even better, hire a stripper

comic_relief
 

Patrick124

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A junior is a terrible idea. Unless you have no problem being used by some girl just so she has an excuse to go to prom. Prom doesnt mean instant azz.
Ask the shy senior. shes shy, no ones ask her, she'll say yes. grab ya balls n do it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr. Fresh

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Actually my prom is on may 30th, I have until may 11th to buy the tickets
 
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