"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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who says that you need one of your own age?

don't

Don Juan
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as a young man, you want an older gal, after you turn 30, you want one who is about 10 years younger than you are. After you are 50, you want one who is about 20 years younger, or she won't be able to keep up with you, if you are an alpha, at least. I have no idea how to help betas, or really, any idea why all such men don't just suicide, actually.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Zerro

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I seem to be an exception in that I can't recall ever wanting an older gal, except maybe when I was 17 and the chick was 21. I've never dated a chick who was older than me, they've all been 1 to 7 years younger than I thus far.
 
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