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Who Pays for Porn? Who are the simps?

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I see too many articles about girls making money on OnlyFans (minority though), streamers on Twitch, TikTok, whatever. I understand porn websites can make money through ads since they have a lot of traffic (rumors say 1/3 of the internet is porn).

If you use Telegram messaging app, there is a "Search Nearby" where you can find people. In big cities, you'll see a bunch of prostitutes and many are offering "packages" ($10 for a video or such). Some even offer "sex call".

What keeps my head spinning is trying to figure WHO IS GIVING MONEY TO GIRLS WITHOUT GETTING PHYSICAL SEX IN RETURN? What's the profile of a guy who subscribes to OnlyFans?

Finessing exist since sex was discovered but any of you actually knows somebody who pays for porn?
 

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I know of two guys who paid to watch girls on webcam sites. When I asked why they wouldn't look up the girl on google and watch her for free they said it was rather about the thrill of commanding her what she has to do.

One guy was always broke yet he actually got phone numbers from some women, just to indicate how much time he spent there. And money ofcourse.

Don't ever underestimate the amount of male thirst for beautiful women. With so many sexless men something's gotta give. The might've said 63 % of men didn't date, they never said they stopped liking pretty women.

Once you go deep into the rabbithole its gonna be a long way out. A horny man with some" cash to burn" can easily decide to spend money on porn driving by lust and induced by substances . Paying is the same mouseclick away as not paying..

Its always pathetic men tho. No matter who it is, it should be viewed as a low point in life.
 

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Same guys who go to strip clubs and only get a lap dance for 100-200 euros :)

Men are obsessed with being seen as manly and for people to obey what he says

Since life is not like that, in most cases, they end up taking drugs like this

I heard that even at prostitutes, the vast majority of guys are married or in a relationship and tired of being nagged by their partner, so they go to prostitutes that will fulfill their fantasies or fixations

You rarely have actual incels doing stuff like this, most incels are actually afraid of women
 

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I cant stand free porn sites because all too often, in the thumbnails, even if you are looking for something mild, say like softcore, you end up with some sick thumbnails of at best, hetro hardcore and worst trans and gay stuff. Lets face it, free porn is not safe.

The best type of porn is OnlyFans because you know what you like, who you like, you know its hetro, and you are going to connect with a hot lady who can give d1ck ratings and watch you jerk off to her own pics.

Best of all, no STDs or PTSD because screens do not bite. You can watch your fantasy girl on your smartphone while taking a washroom break at work and jerking off in the toilet (thought about it but never did that), you can watch her on VR headset being life size (did it once in the past, too lazy to do it), you can watch her on your bed if you have trouble sleeping (most frequent issue). You control when and where.

Dont get what the issue is. If I did not abstain/repent for religious reasons I would probably be in cloud 9 with subscriptions that would melt my brain and make me look forward to waking up to fvck another hottie in my mind. I am banned from such sites (self imposed). But people want to point fingers at someone

In fact, since 2014 no woman on this planet has seen my c0ck and I felt very insecure about sharing my d1ck pick with a couple of ladies from OF....and it was a roller-coaster. At first I felt violated that another lady has "seen it" after I sent it. I gained confidence after the first lady saw it, and shared it with another lady who also saw it afterwards. It was a cool feeling knowing these two ladies saw how my c0ck looked like. And I felt like there was no anxiety attack or any issues about it. It just felt normal. I'm still here. Wow.
 
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I cant stand free porn sites because all too often, in the thumbnails, even if you are looking for something mild, say like softcore, you end up with some sick thumbnails of at best, hetro hardcore and worst trans and gay stuff. Lets face it, free porn is not safe.

The best type of porn is OnlyFans because you know what you like, who you like, you know its hetro, and you are going to connect with a hot lady who can give d1ck ratings and watch you jerk off to her own pics.

Best of all, no STDs or PTSD because screens do not bite. You can watch your fantasy girl on your smartphone while taking a washroom break at work and jerking off in the toilet (thought about it but never did that), you can watch her on VR headset being life size (did it once in the past, too lazy to do it), you can watch her on your bed if you have trouble sleeping (most frequent issue). You control when and where.

Dont get what the issue is. If I did not abstain/repent for religious reasons I would probably be in cloud 9 with subscriptions that would melt my brain and make me look forward to waking up to fvck another hottie in my mind. I am banned from such sites (self imposed). But people want to point fingers at someone

In fact, since 2014 no woman on this planet has seen my c0ck and I felt very insecure about sharing my d1ck pick with a couple of ladies from OF....and it was a roller-coaster. At first I felt violated that another lady has "seen it" after I sent it. I gained confidence after the first lady saw it, and shared it with another lady who also saw it afterwards. It was a cool feeling knowing these two ladies saw how my c0ck looked like. And I felt like there was no anxiety attack or any issues about it. It just felt normal. I'm still here. Wow.
you seem to have an interesting background. very curious if you have a thread somewhere
 

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I cant stand free porn sites because all too often, in the thumbnails, even if you are looking for something mild, say like softcore, you end up with some sick thumbnails of at best, hetro hardcore and worst trans and gay stuff. Lets face it, free porn is not safe.

The best type of porn is OnlyFans because you know what you like, who you like, you know its hetro, and you are going to connect with a hot lady who can give d1ck ratings and watch you jerk off to her own pics.

Best of all, no STDs or PTSD because screens do not bite. You can watch your fantasy girl on your smartphone while taking a washroom break at work and jerking off in the toilet (thought about it but never did that), you can watch her on VR headset being life size (did it once in the past, too lazy to do it), you can watch her on your bed if you have trouble sleeping (most frequent issue). You control when and where.

Dont get what the issue is. If I did not abstain/repent for religious reasons I would probably be in cloud 9 with subscriptions that would melt my brain and make me look forward to waking up to fvck another hottie in my mind. I am banned from such sites (self imposed). But people want to point fingers at someone

In fact, since 2014 no woman on this planet has seen my c0ck and I felt very insecure about sharing my d1ck pick with a couple of ladies from OF....and it was a roller-coaster. At first I felt violated that another lady has "seen it" after I sent it. I gained confidence after the first lady saw it, and shared it with another lady who also saw it afterwards. It was a cool feeling knowing these two ladies saw how my c0ck looked like. And I felt like there was no anxiety attack or any issues about it. It just felt normal. I'm still here. Wow.
I feel you. I'm in a constant lather of horniness. Regardless of whether i'm getting it or not. Though I'm not much into porn. My urge is to go out to a club or bar and find some.
 

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I feel you. I'm in a constant lather of horniness. Regardless of whether i'm getting it or not. Though I'm not much into porn. My urge is to go out to a club or bar and find some.
Exactly. You can see my prior (before abstainence/repentance) OnlyFans interactions are so hyper-realistic that even you are vibing with my posts (ie where you are meeting real women at a club/bar, etc...). Whatever is going on here, this seems rather eerily real with me for something that's virtual. You can see that I almost had a level of fun comparable to someone who is meeting women in real life in flesh & blood. But, I can never talk that way about any free porn, lol!
 

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Exactly. You can see my prior (before abstainence/repentance) OnlyFans interactions are so hyper-realistic that even you are vibing with my posts (ie where you are meeting real women at a club/bar, etc...). Whatever is going on here, this seems rather eerily real with me for something that's virtual. You can see that I almost had a level of fun comparable to someone who is meeting women in real life in flesh & blood. But, I can never talk that way about any free porn, lol!
I suppose one advantage of OF vs going clubbing. No risk iof a walk of shame.
 

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Generally speaking the guys who pay are looking for the "girlfriend experience." If a woman just throws a bunch of nudes up and expects random strangers to pay for them it's not gonna happen. This is why the average woman who tries onlyfans doesn't make any money. The really successful women will offer texting, phone calls, and live video chats to their subscribers. These simps then get to send "good morning" texts to a hot chick and having her respond is a thrill for a lot of guys.
 

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I cant stand free porn sites because all too often, in the thumbnails, even if you are looking for something mild, say like softcore, you end up with some sick thumbnails of at best, hetro hardcore and worst trans and gay stuff. Lets face it, free porn is not safe.

The best type of porn is OnlyFans because you know what you like, who you like, you know its hetro, and you are going to connect with a hot lady who can give d1ck ratings and watch you jerk off to her own pics.

Best of all, no STDs or PTSD because screens do not bite. You can watch your fantasy girl on your smartphone while taking a washroom break at work and jerking off in the toilet (thought about it but never did that), you can watch her on VR headset being life size (did it once in the past, too lazy to do it), you can watch her on your bed if you have trouble sleeping (most frequent issue). You control when and where.

Dont get what the issue is. If I did not abstain/repent for religious reasons I would probably be in cloud 9 with subscriptions that would melt my brain and make me look forward to waking up to fvck another hottie in my mind. I am banned from such sites (self imposed). But people want to point fingers at someone

In fact, since 2014 no woman on this planet has seen my c0ck and I felt very insecure about sharing my d1ck pick with a couple of ladies from OF....and it was a roller-coaster. At first I felt violated that another lady has "seen it" after I sent it. I gained confidence after the first lady saw it, and shared it with another lady who also saw it afterwards. It was a cool feeling knowing these two ladies saw how my c0ck looked like. And I felt like there was no anxiety attack or any issues about it. It just felt normal. I'm still here. Wow.
So you're back at justifying your use of OF?

I thought you were actually embarrassed and tried to stay away from it, but now you sell it like its the best option available.

All so what? You can avoid putting in the work and take risks?
 

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Generally speaking the guys who pay are looking for the "girlfriend experience." If a woman just throws a bunch of nudes up and expects random strangers to pay for them it's not gonna happen. This is why the average woman who tries onlyfans doesn't make any money. The really successful women will offer texting, phone calls, and live video chats to their subscribers. These simps then get to send "good morning" texts to a hot chick and having her respond is a thrill for a lot of guys.
This

The dude i mentioned isn't even that bad looking..white, very tall(like 2 meters tall I believe that's 6/3,6/4) . Kinda well spoken. Stillhead full of hair.

But also lazy AF, never touched a dumbell,weed addict, piles of debts he wont pay, feminine and insecure as it gets. Under "normal circumstances " he would definitely be able to pull the women he's paying for in real life. But due to the former he is FAR away from even sparking women's curiosity.

Now he is with woman from the Philippine and "everything seems fine" as she is here for a couple of months. Also a common trait of men like these: complete desperation and horniness which leads to all kinds of crazy things like getting a gf on the other side of the planet just to be able to say and show you have one.
 

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I suppose one advantage of OF vs going clubbing. No risk iof a walk of shame.
The temporary walk of shame of lets say a rejection is now a daily walk of shame, one that YOU (not you you Haru) as man must deal with. You can't pretend like "everything is fine" when you are spending money on this, money that could be spend on literally anything else. Investments, hobbies, loved ones, even on charity the money would be better spent.

Lets just say that using OF will basically confirm your own belief of not being good enough ect. Its a downward spiral.
Same guys who go to strip clubs and only get a lap dance for 100-200 euros :)

Men are obsessed with being seen as manly and for people to obey what he says

Since life is not like that, in most cases, they end up taking drugs like this

I heard that even at prostitutes, the vast majority of guys are married or in a relationship and tired of being nagged by their partner, so they go to prostitutes that will fulfill their fantasies or fixations

You rarely have actual incels doing stuff like this, most incels are actually afraid of women
Yes, i also think that hookers will mostly deal with men that are somehow in desperate need of p00sy. A man with discipline and standards will find tons if reasons why not to feck hookers.

I only disagree with your last sentence. Incels(IN-voluntary ) will feel like they're FORCED to pay if they ever want to have some form of control over a woman.
 

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I only disagree with your last sentence. Incels(IN-voluntary ) will feel like they're FORCED to pay if they ever want to have some form of control over a woman.
In theory yes, but in practice o only met a couple of incels and all of them had the same thing in common. They were to cheap to invest anything in them in order to bang women ( even paying prostitutes)

They also lacked a job or had minimum wage ones

If you look on this forum, it kinda reflects the same thing that I observed
 

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In theory yes, but in practice o only met a couple of incels and all of them had the same thing in common. They were to cheap to invest anything in them in order to bang women ( even paying prostitutes)

They also lacked a job or had minimum wage ones

If you look on this forum, it kinda reflects the same thing that I observed
Oke i get what you're saying.

It's true that a true player/womanizer/woman addict will put in the work and "invest" to be around and pull women. This man won't butch to pay some extra money to be at places where women will be and make sure that he looks the part.

Whereas an incel wont give a F about smelling and looking as good as possible. Yet in this thread we were looking at the types of men who PAY for online play. As Op stated its a billion dollar industry now, so this man exists but his profile is unclear. Ofcourse not many men will admit they do this which makes it difficult to pinpoint who he is, but so far (kudos) at least @corrector says he does this and he is an incel.

Imo it's more likely to be an incel who does this than a man whose in tune with himself, puts in the work and thus gets positive feedback from women.
 

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So you're back at justifying your use of OF?

I thought you were actually embarrassed and tried to stay away from it, but now you sell it like its the best option available.

All so what? You can avoid putting in the work and take risks?
The post I wrote stated that I am abstaining/repented of this and am not using it because of religious reasons until at least the end of September. The world should end before this time and I want to be pure when it does.
 

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The post I wrote stated that I am abstaining/repented of this and am not using it because of religious reasons until at least the end of September. The world should end before this time and I want to be pure when it does.
You're being way too dramatic with that philosophy. The world will be here as long as you are alive, so start making the best of it NOW.
 

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You're being way too dramatic with that philosophy. The world will be here as long as you are alive, so start making the best of it NOW.
Taking a pause from this dumpster, too much negativity and autism here
 

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In theory yes, but in practice o only met a couple of incels and all of them had the same thing in common. They were to cheap to invest anything in them in order to bang women ( even paying prostitutes)

They also lacked a job or had minimum wage ones

If you look on this forum, it kinda reflects the same thing that I observed
This is your dumpster fire contribition? You know nothing.
 

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I’m not much of a porn guy. But. the few times I use it I use the free stuff online. It’s quick. easy and over & done in a short time. I’ll admit I don’t know anything about the more interactive stuff like OF & whatnot. However, it seems more pricey, complicated and time consuming. I think if I were ever in that position. I might as well just hop back on Tinder. It’s been a few years, but I could be up & running in about 15 minutes. No guarantee I could land anything live right away. But good chance I could get some naughty talk & tvtyy pics pretty easy. The downside is. That unlike porn or OF. There’s no guarantee. You could hit the jackpot. Or spend a couple of hours in frustration. .
 

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