"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who needs a wife??

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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steve38

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Pretty sweet, but its still an exclamation of how little power men in the US have compared to the women. We are just silly fools who will pay money to watch sexy women clean our house. I'm sure they upsell at times for exorbinant prices. Nice if you got $500 laying around.

In other countries, the women take it as an honor to be able to take care of our homes, and they do it with pride. Sure they are trying to become the queen of that home, but they have to try VERY hard. As there are a hundred prettier girls that will do the same.

Gotta make a prize out of yourself, however you do it.
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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steve38 said:
Pretty sweet, but its still an exclamation of how little power men in the US have compared to the women. We are just silly fools who will pay money to watch sexy women clean our house. I'm sure they upsell at times for exorbinant prices. Nice if you got $500 laying around.

In other countries, the women take it as an honor to be able to take care of our homes, and they do it with pride. Sure they are trying to become the queen of that home, but they have to try VERY hard. As there are a hundred prettier girls that will do the same.

Gotta make a prize out of yourself, however you do it.
I look at it the opposite.

Paying a hot chick to act sexy and scrub my toilet is a form of power.
Is it pathetic? I don't know (but it is foolish.) I guess if you've got money to burn then it's no different than throwing down $25,000 on a hand carved, solid oak front door.

But the point is, money IS power. The more disposable money you have, the more power you have.

If you ask me, it's very degrading to these women (no, I don't care that it is degrading.)

You're basically saying, "look sexy and wipe my pee stains from the bowl and in return I'll give you a small portion of what I earned today at my respectable job."

But I'm sure we think the same on two points. If a guy has a women then she SHOULD be fulfilling this role. And, most of the guys that get this service are AFC's living in fantasy land.
 

PappyS

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Basically they're paying to get kokteased. Waste of money unless the guy has some kind of fetish for that type of thing.
 
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